Ok I have loved this guy for two years. We have been wrting back and forth and I finall y got the nerve to tell him I like him. He told me he liked me back but it wouldn't work since we are 3 years apart. He's a senior this year and he's leaving next year)= We would do more than just know we both like eachother but my parents are so against any dating. I know I love him and visa versa but what comes next?
2006-12-12 05:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by Doodles14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love this guy,..just let it go. If he is sincere, he will never forget you,..and the burn of passion and love and caring will bring him back to you. I he does not, keep him in a fond part of your heart and slowly move on.
2006-12-12 05:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life comes next. First crushes seem like love but you need more than some "writing back and forth" to know if things will work out. If he is interested then continue to write him when he goes away and see what happens. But do not rush it and it sounds like your parents are very protective - give yourself the chance to meet other young men and experience life for yourself a bit before you determine you are "set for life."
2006-12-12 13:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by firewire_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What comes next is he leaves home and goes off to college and meets women his own age and moves on. He will turn 18, if he hasn't yet, and that would make you rape bait. Later in life, that age difference doesn't mean much, but when you are a teenager, there is a lot of difference.
Get over him and move on with your own life. Find someone your own age.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 13:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what come next is exactly nothing. allowed your future to begin before you try to plan it now, how you feel now you most likely want feel that way 6 months from now, and you will be glad you waited. I know parents just don't understand, but they do know whats best for the child they are taking care of. You and him will remain friends and maybe in a couple of years y'all may become the best that ever hit the dating scene, but patients is your key. PEACE!
2006-12-12 13:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Yahshua F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in contact with each other thats all you can do for now.. on your next birthday .. tell them you still really like this guy and you still keep in touch with him (they'll see that your determined as youve kept intouch and etc) dont worry about the three year thing. why stop love just because of an age gap come on thats silly. :)
2006-12-12 13:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remain friends for the time being. In thre or four years your age difference will NOT make a difference. If your relationship is meant to be more than friends then it will be, if not then you still have your friend. It is a win win situation.
2006-12-12 13:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let this one go. If you fall for him, he will go away to college and break your heart. Save yourself the heartache and look for someone a little younger for now. If your love is true, then it will be there for you when you are out of high school....until then, have some fun and enjoy your high school career....play the field and enjoy!!
2006-12-12 13:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by McBeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is high school; then let him go. Obey your mom and dad. It sucks to have all these feelings so early on and not have any good use for them. Focus on your studies, hobbies, and bettering yourself. You'll only torture yourself and your parents, if you allow yourself to be tormented by your raging hormones. If he is somehow the one for you, things will work out; but you shouldn't preoccupy.
2006-12-12 13:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well First comes love
2nd comes marriage
next comes baby in a baby carriage
2006-12-12 13:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see. the age dont really matter if you know the kind of guy he is. like he will push you just to get in your pants.if it is really love talk to you parents because they cant control you feelings. if it love he will wait and gurl please do not make any stupid mistake that you might regert later on.
2006-12-12 13:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by lil cray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋