I havent talked to this guy in a year bc I was holding a grudge but I'm over it. What do i say to him? I miss his friendship. I'm pretty sure he expects me to never talk to him again.
2006-12-12 05:09:11 · 13 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It just got harder and harder for me to talk to him and I thought too much time passed..
2006-12-12 05:18:36 · update #1
i dont want more than a friendship
2006-12-12 05:31:45 · update #2
Remember that you miss who he USED to be. If a year has passed he may be an entirely different person and his attitude about you may be very different as well. To get back to what you had as friends may not be easy. What makes you think that you are suddenly over it? You should talk to him about the grudge and why you had it. Its not healthy to withhold anger. Get it out and get over it. Why waste your life by punishing someone for a year?
2006-12-12 05:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be a surprise to him for sure. Maybe send a card or email and just be natural like old friends getting in touch again. Maybe apologize for losing contact, ask him how he's doing, tell him you haven't forgotten about him. And yeah tell him that you miss being friends with him. If you're willing that's good, but you have to do it. Go! :)
2006-12-12 13:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. If he doesn't want to talk, then its no big deal. You can always say at least I tried. Its better than knowing that you did nothing and will always have that feeling of what if in your stomach for the rest of your life.
Just send him an email, maybe even a text message. if he doesnt respond then your feelings wont be hurt too bad.
2006-12-12 13:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Yello_dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and say "HI" - easy enough - you are talking about a guy...if you explain that you miss his friendship and talking with him he will let you know what the next step should be.
2006-12-12 13:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by firewire_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just that! Let him know that you miss his friendship and you would really like him in your life again. The worst he can do is say, "NO." Even then, you can at least move forward and who knows?
2006-12-12 13:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you hold the grudge so long because was it worth it but just call him up ask him how he is doing and go from there
2006-12-12 13:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and tell him that you miss the friendship you used to have and dont expect it back right away but would like to work on it if he would. dont sweat the small stuff if he still cares he will want it as much as you
2006-12-12 13:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start by apologizing for your rude behaviour and how you treated him.... If he accepts the apology, then you need to start rebuilding the friendship since a lot has changed between the two of you in the past year....
2006-12-12 13:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just walk up to him and say hi
according to his reaction continue the conversation
2006-12-12 13:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by cutecamille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start with hi, how are you...
2006-12-12 13:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋