Every time I spend the night at my boyfriend's, I go to bed and he stays up late. One night, I woke up and I caught him watching porn online. It didn't seem right to me. Is this considered cheating?
2006-12-12 05:06:31 · 16 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, whats the big deal? Do you get excited when you see a hot actor on TV without his shirt on etc? How different is that?
2006-12-12 05:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't consider it cheating, but at the same time it is not something he should be doing while you are asleep in the next room. My ex use to do the same thing all the time! I would actually beg him to have sex with me, then he would say hes too tired or whatever freakin lame excuse he could come up with then I would wake up and find him spanking his momkey!
My only reason I have been given for that is "all guys do it", but thats just an unimaginative masculine response. Dont buy into that bs. If hes doing it behind your back confront him about it and tell him how it makes you feel! If he is rude and doesn't give a **** about how you feel kick his *** to the curb, because soon enough it will turn into titty bars and sluts. And then no more reason for a girlfriend other than someone to fuc when no one else will.
2006-12-12 05:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...No, it's not cheating...
To guys, women are like cars…
We admire them as they pass by. We'll look at different models on the web or magazines. We imagine what it would be like driving others. We’ll go to “shows” to see many different models. We even sometimes miss the good times and bad of previous ones. Some even pay money to test drive others (eww). BUT… We may always look for “upgrades” but we will NEVER give up or replace the one that we have and love.
2006-12-12 05:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens after the porn ? If you email someone saying your single looking for a great guy then thats cheating ..hahaha
2006-12-12 05:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mudd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has this been going on? If he does it once in a while then it should be okay, proof that he's normal.. but if it's done quiet frequently then it would be a bit weird as to why he didn't ask you to watch with him. However, I think it's not cheating.
2006-12-12 05:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that its cheating, but if you feel uncomfortable about it why don't you talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't like that he looks at porn especially when you're there with him.
2006-12-12 05:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by that1chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably not cheating but it's definitely not right. one thing is to watch it alone and the other - when a gf is in the other room. i think it's kinda strange......
2006-12-12 05:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, guys are guys and need that kinda thing. would you rather he watch a bit of porn or sleep with another girl?
2006-12-12 05:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all it is a natural thing for guys to do that...and its not like he will eveer be with the girls on those movies. he is with you so relax about it and watch them with him...lol just kidding
2006-12-12 05:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No why do you think its considered cheating.. so what if he wants to get off... let him.. in one way or another
2006-12-12 05:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋