i'm having doubts about my engagement.... is this normal? i got engaged sept 26.. now i'm getting cold feet..
2006-12-12 05:06:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think it normal i get nervous at times relazing thing are going to change/ or just get doubts because of stress from the wedding planning and wanting to give up, but somewhere I always find it that it is what I want, and he is the one
2006-12-12 05:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nichole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say its pretty normal. You just need to weigh whether you feel your fiance is the right person for you and if so, just put it down to cold feet. However if you feel the cold feet are telling you you need to think harder about some aspect of your relationship, maybe it is time to call off the engagement.
2006-12-12 05:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some real soul searching. If your having cold feet don't jump into saying I Do. Take your time. This is a huge commitment. You know your heart. If he's the right one you should have no doubts.
2006-12-12 05:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I've never had it happen (married for the 3rd time). It's probably normal if you haven't had a lot of relationship experience prior to marriage. It also can be that you're sensing that something's just not right; if so, you have to try and put your finger on it. Keep in mind that if you can't stand something now, it will only get worse in the future; do not go into it thinking that something's going to change once you're married.
2006-12-12 05:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts you need to ask yourself what it is that is making you have these doubts. If you can't answer yourself then maybe you should put it off until you figure it out. If you do know what is giving you these doubts maybe talk to your fiance and work it out together. Marriage is a big commitment. It is better to get everything worked out before you say I do. Good Luck!
2006-12-12 07:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by cece01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When is the wedding planned for? If you are having doubts, its best to re-think your situation before is gets further! But it is normal im sure to have the jitters and what not...
2006-12-12 05:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by BrookieB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you super young and you having doubts, DONT DO IT..Save yourself some time and money....Just prolong the engagement and put him to the test...Good lulck!
2006-12-12 05:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...do you have a nagging feeling that it just isn't right? or are you just nervous? You should always go with your gut though. If you are having doubts now, listen to them before you make a decision you will regret.
2006-12-12 05:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by briandjoesmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the doubts....some are normal and some aren't.
Trust yourself...if you know, deep in your heart this is a mistake, don't do it.
2006-12-12 05:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only engaged so you shouldnt worry. Dont rush into things take your time, when the time comes and its right youll know. And if it doesnt come and it isnt right youll know
2006-12-12 05:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋