I am 16 and my boyfriend recently asked me to marry him, but there's one downfall.... he likes to tell me all the time that he is going to a strip club knowing that i highly disapprove of it.. what do i do? I don't want to marry him if he's gonna go and pay to see other chicks naked!
2006-12-12 04:42:30 · 9 answers · asked by Lil' Miss Thing aka Crista 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a chump. You're only 16, please wait a while before you think about marriage! I say this because I notice lots of girls my age (21) are single with children, and it makes them impossible to date. It's such a shame. But I'm not about to pay for someone else's mistakes like that. Maybe if I was in my 30s or something, I might CONSIDER it. But at my age, I will not put up with it. Have a nice day!
2006-12-12 04:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to realize that the stip club is not a threat to your relationship and you should not fear it like you do. There is worse things he could be doing then going to a strip club, however because you are young and most likely jealous you will not understand this until later in your life. but If i could give you any advice it would be dont sweat the small stuff and let the poor guy have fun once in a while and you should also have fun as long as you are not cheating on each other there is no harm in the strip club. at least he is being honest with you.
2006-12-12 04:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by stinkyhotdogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are too young to even have a boyfriend, much less be thinking about marriage to anyone. Marriage is NOT a big, fancy, pretty, romantic thing. You get one day of that for the wedding, and the rest is very hard work.
As for the boyfriend, this jerk is an immature child who is trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't give it to him. Strip club dancers are ALL about the money. It's just a job. They are actresses. They very, very rarely date men from the clubs and they often have major drug and/or psychological problems.
So don't worry about the crap your boyfriend spouts about strip clubs. Unless he's tipping them $20 at a time, those girls wouldn't look twice at him.
You have so much to learn and do for yourself before you'll be capable of committing to anyone else.
2006-12-12 05:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His intentions by telling you are not meant to hurt you. Most men,yes we still continue to go to strip clubs as we get older, will continue to go but it's not a weekly or even a monthly thing. If he is doing this regularly, then there is a problem.
Oh and these guys that answer and say they don't go or have not gone or will not go are lying or gay or their woman have their manhood in a jar.
2006-12-12 04:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may be doing this because he may be trying to hint to you that he wants you to perform for him in this way when you are both intimate. i doubt very much he would hurt you if he asked you to marry him. he may just want your attention or may want to know how strongly you feel about him.. like your loyalty to him.. he may be testing it to see if you really want him to be the one. :)
2006-12-12 04:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys are like that they like to be mean, u need to find another boy or just tell him never to go to one.
2006-12-12 04:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guys in to porn and he knows i hate it... he told me he dosent do it on pourpouse but hes just addicted to it... mabey your guy is addicted to seeing those kind of grls naked and he cants stop...
2006-12-12 04:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by cockbite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is still a child. Don't do it.
2006-12-12 04:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't even marry dat pervert
2006-12-12 04:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋