why he loves me so much?

Question

we met when we our date of engagement was fixed.now its 5 months of our engagement. we chat daily as he is far from my place.we just fall in love after that.but before engagement i thought this relationship is a compromise.just have to get married for parents.but now we just want to marry just now but also two month time is left.

Answer 1

I don't know what exactly you are asking. If you mean it was not out of love in the beginning but it seems to be now. One must remember love is something that can grow, so even if it was not there before, it can exist after. Once it starts growing then you want to be together, and may each of you want to make it permanent which is through marriage. The fact is most think love is a compromise but it really a choice, the factors can vary but once you made a choice about someone with respect to the heart, the heart can grow fonder of the person. This is what happens in many arranged marriages. People are usually the same in what they want and desire even if outwardly they show something different. Everyone wants to belong and be loved. There are exceptions to the case, but for most people this is what is important. (of course I am not talking about physical attraction thats another story).

Absence also makes the heart grow fonder, it makes you to long to be together and with the added connection of love playing a part, you in for anticipation that you cannot wait that long. Your biology and psychology are working together to make you want to get together more and more. Which can be a good thing or bad depending on your psychological makeup but in most cases it is good.

Of course, the main problem would be, would you two be able to keep your hands off each other before the ceremony. lol.

Answer 2

What in the world are you trying to say here?

Answer 3

You have both made the discovery that you are soul mates.

Answer 4

I'm sorry...what?? I'm a little confused...