My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2dec.1MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-12 04:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please protect yourself. He is dangerous and will contact you again & will hurt you again. He is an abuser and you are a victim.
Stop being the victim and take control. Save the messages & go to the Police and get a protective order. Tell your parents your church leaders your friends...everyone that will listen. Someone will guide you in your area.
An abuser gets more power from you being afraid and from alienating you from those who will protect you.
The power he has over you will reduce in time. You will gain the power to be in charge of your life.
2006-12-12 04:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has some serious issues. If you file charges against him or a restraining order it could make matters worse. I would contact an abuse hotline or battered womens shelter and ask them for advice.
Generally the police will not take action until he physically hurts you. It sucks. Sometimes a detective will call him for you and give him a warning.
I actually had to move and change my phone numbers to get away from a pyscho.
Good Luck!
2006-12-12 12:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' why do you care? This bloke is obviously a f*cking idiot!!
He doesn't care about you......just himself and what matters to him.
Do yourself a favour, delete his number........f*ck it, change yours so this prick can't text you anymore. Then you can get on with your life and be happy.
2006-12-12 12:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need police protection and a therapist. And no, I'm not kidding.
2006-12-12 12:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY? We just can't tell. I think he will, because he has continued to. But why do you care? Please, find a new boyfriend, OK? Are you in America, or a foreign country?
2006-12-12 12:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by TheOneVersion3.0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he'll propabely contact you again, some guys don't get it, that you don't want him anymore; my solution get rid of him and change your number!
2006-12-12 12:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by doctor who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋