All my mates lost their virginity ages ago, so i'm like 'the baby' out of them, and I was just wondering if theirs anything I need to watch out for, or need to know for when I do eventually lose it, though I have no idea when it'll be since am single! :( but wanna be prepared. Everyones told me all these tales, and I didn't know what to believe or not, so just thought I'd ask anyway. Obviosuly I'm old enough to know the concept of it, I just wanted to know if theirs anything that happends long term, physically, that you might not expect.
No kids answerin!
Thanks alot!
2006-12-12 04:21:56 · 15 answers · asked by <-tom-> 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i could take your virginity.
2006-12-12 04:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, unless it is a monogamous relationship and both people are free of STDs.... you might get that.
Females take the physical act more seriously than males and normally relate it to the intimacy of the relationship. 95% of teenage girls surveyed, who were sexually active, said that when they are having sex, they are thinking that they love the guy and imagine being married to them.... house, 2 kids, and a dog kinda thing. Only 5% of guys felt that way..... the other 95% thinking that it's great getting off on the girl physically.... only thinking about the physical sensation.
Guys and girls need to know that when they consider having sex. The girls need to realize that the guy she is with is unlikely to be her future husband. The guys need to realize how much they are going to hurt the girl.
Please consider all of this when the time comes for you to make that decision.
God's plan of waiting until marriage is still the best. Divorce rates are highest among people engaging in premarital sex and/or living together. It is lowest among virgins who marry. That flies in the face of the common beliefs people have, but it's true.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 04:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothin you need to be worried about! Don't stress about it. The only thing I can think of is when you first start doing it, you're probably going to come in like five seconds but the more you do it, the longer you can go. Other than that, as long as you know what goes where I really can't think of any effects or issues to be worried about! So have fun! Also, there's LOTS of girls out there who are turned on by the thought of being a guy's first. That's hot!
2006-12-12 04:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-11 07:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly its not when you lose your virginity that will make you a man and the best is when you do it with a person you care about.
Only thing to keep in mind is that girls usually have a hard time seperating sex and relationship, so if you go for a one night stand, get ready for the fireworks.
2006-12-12 04:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by d_leoncavallo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was just wondering if theirs anything I need to watch out for,
yeah, STD's and babies
2006-12-12 04:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by rudyspuddin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will suddenly enjoy porn a lot more - so plan on master bate ing more if you don't already. Then you will hunger for a females genitals and it might drive you crazy so go back to porn.
Wear a condom
2006-12-12 04:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be safe thats all you really need to know, and watch out... it become an addiction... haha
2006-12-12 04:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember to use protection.
2006-12-12 04:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you do...you have to go get yourself checked at the doctors all the time. and all this emotional crap. my suggestion..be different from everyone else. don't have sex.
2006-12-12 04:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Amber B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
cover it up
2006-12-12 04:24:14 · answer #11 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋