Went out w/ my ex for the first time since he broke up w/ me 2 months ago.
At the end of the night he gave me a really, really long hug. I started to cry, when I looked up at him he was teary. He just looked at me and we hugged again. I told him I missed him, he said he missed me too. I asked if he was upset, he said "a little". He kissed me on the head and then hugged me again.
He told me to call him any time....I told him the same. We said we would get together again soon.
What can I do to keep his interest and get us back together?
2006-12-12 04:18:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm...call him?
2006-12-12 04:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by alighier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been 60 days, and you guys have not seen each other till now, and still have those feelings, it would seem you guys still have some real love there. On the other hand, being alone after a relationship can suck, and maybe you guys are just lonely now, and would like to have companionship again.
I had said the very same thing to my ex, and she the same too, "to call me whenever, I want to hear from you". One week after she left, still hadn't heard a word from her, email/phone. When we talked, about 1 month later, she said she wanted me to call her, and I said I wanted to give her space, as she was the one who decided to end the relationship, and felt she could call me.
Whatever problems you had, with the relationship, if you can communicate with him, and work these out, and not just bury them, or leave them behind, but really get to the root cause, and not have, or have better understanding of the problem to handle next time, would prolly be best to making this time work again. If trust is there, and you truely love him, it should all fall back together, and with hope, stronger this time.
2006-12-12 12:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by daniyel95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm. Well, I'm not a guy but I think that I would say to talk to him about it. Really, I guess it would depend on what kind of hug it was because it may have been a friendly hug and he is,like someone else said, feeling guilty over what happened. If he said to call any time, then he may have been hinting for you to call him. Maybe, he still feels something for you but is having trouble saying it because of what happened between you when you broke up.
2006-12-12 13:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just feels guilty for dumping you like that and he is trying to still be a friend so that he doesn't seem insensitive. I think it's being more insensitive to keep giving someone hope like that. I think that you need to move on. How will your relationship ever be the same if he left you like that in the first place? Will you ever be able to forgive or trust him again after all that? Keep your dignity and self-worth and stop all contact with him. You will just be embarrased at yourself later.
2006-12-12 12:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tIf the love is still there, you 2 need to sit down and discuss what you both can do o make this relationship work for the best.
2006-12-12 12:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...boy.... Sounds like he figured it out!
He is in love with you girl....
Take it slow this time. Practice loving without expectation, and selflessness.
How?
I don't want to get preachy here.. but you do it by surrendering to Christ. Without him in the center of your life "on the throne", you will, as we all do, have unrealistic expectations. You will also by nature want to please self. It just happens... The...me, my, mine thing! We go to war, even with the ones we love to have it our way.
If Christ is on the throne of your lives... He will not war with him self. The result is Peace, Joy and abundant Love!
2006-12-12 12:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever youre doing is working so far! keep it up
2006-12-12 12:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you breakup? that will help us answer
2006-12-12 12:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be needy and sleep with his friends!!
2006-12-12 12:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
be ur self
2006-12-12 12:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋