actually i fell in love wid guy , he too loves me, but when i was carrying on wid him i had to lose my best friend coz she didnt like him as she thought he was not rite for me, i think i was wrong in choosing him and frgetting her friendshipas he betrayed me later.
WAT should i do????plzzzzzzz
2006-12-12 04:11:59 · 39 answers · asked by shivani a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your friend is anything like you, I would call her apologize and offer to take the two of you to a spelling course.
2006-12-12 04:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh My! First, how old are you? lol. I am asking this because when you are young your friends are the most important thing in your life. When you get older and looking for a life partner that special man is the most important thing in your life. Unless he is doing something bad (like drugs, parties without ya, strip clubs) then I don't see why your friend hated him so much.
Just talk to her. Tell her you made a mistake and that you are sorry. Then maybe she will come around. Don't bombard her with sorrys and want her to take you back as a friend right away. Tell her how you feel and give her time. Let her know you still want her as a friend and that you love her and let her do the rest.
2006-12-12 04:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn English
2006-12-12 04:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! Explain to her that you realise now that her friendship is more valuable then some stupid guy. She may not be too quick to forgive you, but give her some time.. she should soon realise also that she needs to forgive you because we all make mistakes, and that was one of yours. Hopefully you learn from this experience and not make that same mistake again, because honestly, guys come and go.. especially if you are young, you have to keep in mind that they are not out to look for something serious.. they only have one thing in mind, and if you are willing to lose your friends for that, then you dont deserve them to begin with. Good luck to you.. dont give up on her, she will come around!
2006-12-12 04:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend left you because of who you dated, then she wasn't your friend in the first place. However, I sense there is more to the story here than you are letting on. I think you might not be recognizing some of the things you may have done wrong in both relationships. Just my opinion. I could be wrong.
2006-12-12 04:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation too. You should talk to her tell her how you really feel. If she doesn't then you have to prove to her that you are really sorry. I hope you get your frien dback. I know I would want mine. Another thing to do is to tell her how you how you've been friends for so long and how her friendship is more important then some boy and how your sorry for leaving her for a boy. Good Luck!
2006-12-12 04:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are always right! Also, if something looks too good to be true, it is! You need some time on your own now to suffer for what you did to your friend. You hurt her in the interim. Once you suffer a bit, go back to her and ask her for forgiveness!
2006-12-12 04:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry your friendship ended but it may be too late because you chose a guy over a good friend and it wasnt until he betrayed you that you want her back in your life, it dont work out that way. i hope she can forgive you, maybe you can call her or something and tell her you should have listened but dont expect the reaction you want as you threw her away like a used rag.
2006-12-12 04:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that you were wrong. If she is a real friend she will forgive you. And as a future reference... no guy is EVER worth a friendship and real friends will stick around even if they think the guy is wrong for you. They'll just say they told you so in the end haha.
2006-12-12 04:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and apologize to your friend because she was right. If she doesn't forgive you then she wasn't really your friend in the first place.
Be more careful with the guys you pick in the future. I will gladly help you screen them out for you.
2006-12-12 04:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you improve your spelling, a whole new world of love will open up. Bad spelling is to ears, what bad breath is to the nose----terrible! Imagine you breathing garlic and cumin on your BF!!
Now to your problem. Leave him and find new relationships.
Learn to express yourself in correct English, first. Otherwise take up Pushto--much easier to learn.
2006-12-12 04:16:50 · answer #11 · answered by paanbahar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋