I want to get back with my ex. We only have been broken up for a week but I can't get past him. Everytime I talk to him or here someone say his name a big smile comes on my face. But I am just to nervous(scared really) to tell him. I don't want to put my feelings out there, and then he rejects me. What do I do? And besides I have been talking to this guy through email and he seems real nice, but we live in two different states.
2006-12-12 04:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you have to decide who and what you want. If you want your long distance internet guy then go for it. If you want to get back with you ex then you need to do so. However you're not going to get back with your ex by sitting here talking to us. You need to contact him as soon as possible. Start out with telling him you want to apologize for your part in the break up. That's not to say that it was your fault however whatever it was you didn't prevent it from happening. Then you put your heart on the line at this point. In order for him to know how you feel you're going to have to open up and tell him. He can't read your mind so open your mouth and talk. You also need to either desolve whatever caused you to break up in the first place or both agree to let it go. If you feel that you can't tell him write him a letter and give him the letter with flowers, (not roses). However you need to act fast and you need to put your heart on the line regardless of being rejected or not. If you want that man back you better go get him before he moves on and then you can't have him.
2006-12-12 04:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that what you probably miss is the comfort level you have with him most likely not him.
If you feel as though you two can make it through this rough patch then tell him how you feel. You have to know that if he is rejecting you after you have expressed your feelings...he isnt right for you right now.
Find comfort in family/friends in order to get over him. But you cant dominate the coversations with them & make it all about your ex.
2006-12-12 12:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've broken up for only a week, and you still talk to him? That means that you can give this relationship another go. See how he reacts, because you clearly still love him.
Good Luck Sweetie!!!
2006-12-12 12:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your ex and try it again. No matter why you broke up you want him and you want him bad. It's not fair to any new guy to start talking to you and then get dumped for your ex.
2006-12-12 12:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by hot like me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta put yourself out there. If you don't, you may spend the rest of your life wondering "what if". It seems like you care about him, but if he doesn't care back, it's his loss not yours!!!!
2006-12-12 12:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know till you try.
2006-12-12 12:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by hllyrch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋