I have been dating this man for the past few years and all of a sudden for the past month or so he seems really distant, uninterested and I also found out he had been at his ex girlfriends house. He told me he was only there to help her son with something. I have a young child who loves him also. I need to find out what is going on I can't keep going on like this it is killing me. I am sick of my daughter watching me cry over this every night. PLEASE HELP ME....so I can finally prove to myself I need to move on.
2006-12-12 03:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by amanda b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
concidering that you guys arent married, and i dont know if yall live together, but its pretty much impossible to track it. Oh yea, its also illegal! so if you think he is cheating, then just dump him. try talkin to his ex about it. your daughter should be your number one priority, so make sure she stays happy about the situation.
2006-12-12 03:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should just move on period...without the phone records.
To be honest, unless you're on the same phone plan, you can't obtain the records. If you are, the phone company will charge you for them. No real way around it...unless they have a website that they put your phone records on.
With all that said though, why would you bother? It sounds to me like you're already convinced that something else is going on...and it may or may not be. Searching for "proof" isn't worth it. If you don't trust him... don't be with him.
If you were to find "proof" that he wasn't cheating...then what? Then he's just distant and uninterested?? Is that ok? Are you willing to stay with him if he's distant and uninterested, but not cheating?
Sounds to me like you've got to get a grip on reality...and deal with the issues at hand. He's not giving you what you need to be happy in the relationship, regardless of cheating.. so just move on already. Stop punishing yourself.
2006-12-12 03:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, listen to what your gut instinct is telling you. Don't let your heart cloud what the reality is here. He didn't go over there to "help her son with something," and you know it. Your first priority is your child, and letting her see her mommy like this is heartbreaking and traumatic. Talk to him, ask him what the hell is going on. You deserve honest answers. If you don't get an honest answer, break it off. I know you probably love him, but is any guy worth ruining you and your daughter?
Be strong and stay strong. He sounds like a jerk...
2006-12-12 03:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
track??hmm..i am kinda an expert i hate to say..too much time on my hands at work..shh..but not really track,if you find a phone # on his cell or his home caller id,you can 1st try and reverse look up the # with like verizon.com(free) it will give you the name and address the # is registered too..or if you know their name and not # zabasearch.com is great it will bring up phone # and addresses of this person..But also if your real devious like my BF and I we can get their cell phone bills and look thru it..but it all always usually ends up BAD..Trust your gut instinct..its usually not wrong!!
P.S...my BF had a horrible boyfriend(serial cheater)so we well i used to help her get dirt on him..I am not proud of this..
2006-12-12 03:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by ccrazeegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not beleiving him and stop the frenetic jealousy. You will only get ill and destroy your relationship. CHILL OUT!!! If he has got an affair and you find out, leave him. Think of your DAUGHTER. Does she want to see mummy miserable? She wants YOU to be HAPPY.
2006-12-12 03:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to any radio shack, and get a telephone recording control and a tape recorder. Ask anyone who works there how to set it up. Tell them you've been getting harassing phone calls, and you want to record them. They'll be able to help you set up a system to record his calls.
2006-12-12 03:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you are over his house see if you can find a copy of the statment and go though it. or you can log on to his account if you can think of the password
2006-12-12 03:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by ***you 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know but it is not healthy to get to this point you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel sneaking around is not going to turn out well
2006-12-12 03:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo i need to know my selffffffffff
2006-12-12 03:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by ........... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to do that
2006-12-12 03:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋