Finding true love is a true lie?

Question

I think soulmates/truelove is a true lie because everybody perception on what is love is different. You always hear women talking about finding true love but at the end of the day there this stereotypical type of guy that every woman loves. And when they find a guy that fit these stereotypes that’s there “True Love” Do you believe this is true?

Answer 1

i dont believe in a soul mate. i think we will love the person who will compliment our lives. some of us will experience more than one love in our lifetime (if we are lucky).

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I think love is what you make it.

If you are asking if we can find someone out there to love for a life time - yes. But it takes committment, comprimise and good judgement.

I don't think there is some instant attraction that turns into some soap opera whirl wind love affair that ends in the happily ever after.

I believe in what I have found.

I may see love as one way and he another but apparently they mesh somehow. I believe he is relatively happy. I know I am relatively happy.

Every day is not a friggin picnic. Some days I want to chuck it out the window. But I don't. I wait. I wait for the days that are good.

And the bad days are never hopeless ones. Just the kind where you wish the damn ball games were over or that he'd mow the grass.

I'm sure there are days he wants to kill me. Like when there's no food in the house (I hate shopping) or no clean underwear (I also hate laundry). But he waits for the days that are good.

And the good days far outnumber the bad.

The days we loved being parents, the days we made love to eachother, the days we slept in eachothers arms, the days we laughed. Alot of days in there. I really can't count too many that I wanted to kill him.

Love is what you make it. We made it pretty good.

Answer 4

ask any woman what she wants and she can probably give you a list. but when the 'right guy' comes along--she is totally willing to compromise because what she THOUGHT she wanted isn't so important anymore.

I do think 'true love' is a lie--in the hollywood sense that 'true love' is easy and perfect---relationships, even great ones, take a lot of work. anything who says otherwise is selling something :-)

there is no stereotypical guy all women love. as many types of people, there are the types they like most.

Answer 5

I don't think that is true at all. I don't have a "type" I'm looking for in a mate. I've dated very different types of guys that looked nothing alike. I know there are some out there that seek a certain "type" but that totally limits the possibility of finding the one that is just right for you. If people would be more open to finding out the personality of the person they date before starting to date just on looks perhaps more people would find the right one for them.

Answer 6

i believe in true love/soulmates. because there is someone for everyone-it says so in the bible. and women are not the only ones who have their "lists". men do to. women have to be a certain size and shape before men even talk to a woman. they may have to have a certain length of hair,etc. but women, all we want is someone who will treat us good and be there for us in every way. some women dont care about looks and all that, because looks fade away one day, you'll get old and saggy, so looks dont matter. but if you treat us right and love us, i mean truly love us, we wont care if you looked like a gargoyle!! a truelove is someone who makes you happy and satisfies you, not only your body,but your heart and soul as well. someone you can trust and someone who you can depend on. someone who loves you as much as you love them. truel love is simple really, its what makes you happy.

Answer 7

i agree TRUE love doesnt exist in my opinion. i think only love does and along with that comes certain excitement and certain moral values. but i love alot of people in different ways and to me its all true per se. If you love someone then thats a great thing we shouldnt tear it apart its either you love them or you dont. jsut remember loves not everything you can lvoe your partner to death but there are other factors that need to be fullfilled. but soulmates believe me i thought i had about 4 soulmates by theend of them i realized theres no such thing only new loves.

Answer 8

I would like to believe in true love but life has led me way in the other direction. Maybe someday we can both change that opinion.

Answer 9

Yes, true love is what you make it. And you need to work it all the time or you can fall out of love..

Answer 10

I just think that true love is when you know you love somebody from the moment you met them and you want to be with them for the rest of your lives....That's happened to me too.