guys please answer girls can to but i need a man perspective on this?

Question

okay so my man and i havent had sex for a while cause we both have been doin other things but he is coming to my house this weekend and i really wanna do something speacial sexually wise
i need ideas suggestions, i jus want to blow his mind away lol

thanks 4 the help

Answer 1

Ok, light some candles, and turn off the lights before he gets there. Do you have a large mirror near your bed? If not, move one next to your bed.

Be sure to have clean fresh smelling sheets on your bed. Get some lotion, body oil, or massage oil and set it on a stand next to your bed, along with a tall glass of water. You're both about to get really thirsty. If you do this right! Also have a towel on the night stand.

Take a shower so your whole body is smelling good. Use lotion all over your skin after you get out so it's smooth and soft everywhere. Be sure to shave below. I mean shave all around that thing of yours. Leave a little triangle patch above if you want, but be sure everything else is shaven. We hate going down on our women and getting a mouth full of pubic hair.

You and he have been dating for a while I assume. You know what he likes to se you wearing. Try opening the door, wearing nothing but a long T-Shirt (of his) if you have one. No bra, no panties. Just a long white T-shirt. Have your eye lashes done with the mascera and eyel liner so they show your eyes better.

If you have some langerie, wear that under a house coat with some high heels; if you don't do the T-shirt thing. When he come in the door, grab him by the hand and take him straight to your room. "I missed you so much, come here I want to show you something"!

leave his shirt alone for now, go straight for his pants. When you get him in your room. Lay him down on your bed with his feet haning off the side. Unbuckle his belt, or whater and slowly pull his pants down. Don't worry if he's not hard yet, but when you meet him at the door, and grab his hand, looking like you look, he should start getting aroused.

Anyway, give him oral, but do it like maybe you've never done it before. Tell him to lift his head because you want him to watch you put his _____ in your mouth. Then, you have to imagine it's an icecream cone (your favorite flavor). Grab it with both hands, one hand fondeling his nuts the other hand, slide the skin down hard, squeeze it tight making the head swell. Then lick it from bottom to top, slowly. Make circles around the head with your tongue, then slide it in your mouth as deep as you can take it. When you pull it back out suck like you're trying to syphon gas out of a garden hose. Down again, sucking it as you pull it out. Use nothing but lips and now only go down a little below the head really really fast, back and forth, back and forth, jacking him with your hand while you do it. Make sounds with your throught like "mmmm" letting him know this tastes great. Remember you have to imagine it's your favorite ice cream cone and you don't want anyone else to have it. Don't let him blow his wad. When you feel it pulsing, stop. Take your shirt off or top off and put his ______ between your breasts. Now jack him off by pushing your **** together and bend your head down to suck the head of his ________ as it is pushed through. Dont' let him get off yet. Slide up his body and sit on his face. Looking at your beautiful body in that mirror, let him give you oral pleasure. Sit on his face so your back is to his _________. Reach behind you and grab it with your hand, you have to lean back to do this properly.

Then flip over and so your two bellies are touching, with your *** in his face, give him some more oral pleasure as he's giving yours. (69)

This is where he needs to make you orgazm the first time and you get him off. Hopefully you swallow, if not, pull it out and jack him with your hand. Squeeze it tight when he's about to blow then let it go, and softly slide your hand up and down all the way up the head and all the way down to his balls.

Grab the towel and wipe up. Then roll him over make sure he's totally naked and grab that oil or lotion. Time for the massage. Starting with his feet, rub that lotion in your hand so it's not cold. Massage his feet, pressing hard with your thumbs. Work your way up his calvs, grabbing his muscles and squeezing them. Making circles with your thumbs. Use both hands on each leg, one leg at a time. Pressing hard with the thumbs making small circles go all the way up his legs, his but, now his lower back. You need strong hands for this, so if your hands get tired by the time you get to his but, use your nails on his back. Go all the way up to his neck and nothing but nails, lightly scratch all the way down to his ***. Then back up and next down his sides. It will send chills all over his body. Then grab his shoulders between his neck and shoulders (coller bone area). Squeeze that muscle each side at the same time. Then massage his arms, finishing off with his hands and fingers. As you finish with his hands, kiss his neck and whisper in his ear, ok baby it's my turn.

(You fully naked laying on your stomach) let him return the favor. Whenever you feel his ________ get hard push your but up in the air and tell him to give it to you. Then watch him in the mirror as he's taking you from behind.

Don't let him get off before you get your second orgazm. Hopefully you'll try numerous positions with him so you know how to satisfy yourself when he's inside you.

Be vocal with it. "Ohh baby you're so huge" Ohh my gosh baby give it to me. Yes!

That's Complete Satisfaction 101 by someone who knows how to satisfy his woman.

Answer 2

Nothing is better than a massage with some candles lit. Just touch him all over first before you get to the good stuff, he'll be ready to die. Try something new too, it will make him feel special an d keep him loyal especially if you haven't given him any in a while.

Answer 3

I'm really not trying to be gross, and this is ONLY a suggestion and if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it... Offer him anal. That WILL blow his mind. If you're not comfortable with that, try a little fantasy stuff like, blindfold him as he sits in a chair and tease him with light touching and different type of stuff. Get him really worked up before you get into it.

Answer 4

A guy wants to be taken care of. I agree with Quasi to the fullest!

make him a sandwich, get him some water, then let him take a nap!

Answer 5

Get another girl and have three some sex. can you if not it is still normal to a guy to have sex.
Or have some good dinner and start from the dinning table. So How about that..?

Answer 6

First off, it seems like you may be a little young. But, just play around and see what she likes. Personally, I like it when a guy slides his hand up my shirt and plays with my nipples and pinches them. But she may not like that. Just make sure you don't just put your hands on them. Play with them. Be really soft and tickle a bit and then go rough.

Answer 7

*sigh*...kids trying to act like adults again. My dear...try using your own imagination for a change. But...want to know a secret. Despite all that you may prepare for men are just happy to get laid. period. Then...you guys all want to cuddle while we want to have you make us a snadwich, grab a cold beer from the fridge and let us watch the football game...in peace.
That's the name of the game you know.

Answer 8

Take a shower with him...some hot, steamy water running over your bodies will help stimulate both of you. While you're in there, give him a bj too...guys LOVE bjs in the shower.

Answer 9

you are a girl you know ....just show hem how sexy you are ....there is many of many ways to do that....i tell you this take the lead in every thing.... men love that ...simply you drive.. don't let him tack a brief....im a man and i rely love that aah.... because men Little Shay from that believe me

Answer 10

ok here goes..
1. get a bottle of champnage
2. get dressed up either with a nice bra and panty or a nice sexy liitle number.
3.let him know how much you missed him
4.make sure you have a little music on
5. when you guys are ready to get it on..
6.give him the best blow j o b you have ever given him.. make sure its well lubricated with your spit.. suck like you have never suck before..lick the side of his penis...suck his balls..he would like that..make sure you get really freaky
get on top of him and ride his pony..
make sure to talk dirty..ex: oh yeah daddy you like that...yeah baby f*ck me..oh big daddy...you have to get freaky men love that...hope I helped...good luck

Answer 11

then why are you going to be indoors...take it outside to the hottub or to the cabin in the mountains where there are no phones and all you can do is pleasure each other...no clothes required, just blankets and some food...