I have known this girl for a couple of months, i would say we are very good friends. Went out on the weekend and had the time of my life with her. Really like her romanticly but not sure if she feels the same way, both of us have had relationship problems in the past, i need a good way to tell her how i feel without scaring her off. Please please help!!
2006-12-12 03:19:31 · 28 answers · asked by thegenius 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did she have a good time? Girls rarely spent bunches of time with a guy, and go and do fun things together, if they are not interested. Did she talk about anyone else? Did she talk to anyone while you were together? That would give you a clue to whether or not she was focussed on you during that time, or perhaps thinking about others. And, you dont necessarily have to come right out and tell her that you like her romantically. You could just go and do romantic things together. Let the romance develop between you. I dont know how old you are, so I cant give you specific ideas, but you could give her a gift, nothing expensive, maybe your favorite book as a kid, or hers... maybe a picnic, or take her somewhere sentimental, like where you went to school, or the house you grew up in. Dont do the sappy romance stuff, like chocolates, stuffed animals and flowers. Plants are cool however, they are more thoughtful! Plants with flowers are better. Take her christmas shopping, and see what she would like. Find something extra special for her. and whatever you chose to do, make sure it is personal to her and/or from you. If you create a moment that is romantic, the romance will be there if you have the right chemistry. Make sure you first kiss is just right!! Good Luck!!
2006-12-12 03:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you suggest you two head out again this coming weekend as ye had such a great time last weekend.
If she agrees - when you are out with her - why dont you say something along the lines of that maybe ye should give it a go as more than friends seeing as ye get on so well and that both your pasts relationship problems means that you are both at a level where you would be able to respect and understand each other and possibly have the makings of a great partnership! xx
2006-12-12 11:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, life's too short! Tell her, none of this hinting malarky, just tell her. Listen, if she likes you it would take quite a lot to put her off and she's probably waiting for you to make the first move. You don't have to lay it on thick, just say, look, I like you, can you see it going anywhere? Ask, sooner rather than later, at least then you can move on, either as just friends, or maybe more!
2006-12-12 11:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by misseliggett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, just tell her how you feel just dont go over bord with the information. Any ways you can fine out if she likes you the way you like. Who knows she might feel the same way but be scared to tell you to. Just talk to her ask her on a date or something. you'll know what to do from there.
2006-12-12 11:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by black_thorn91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it when the time is right. Or when it feels right. When you guys are out having fun, just casually ask her if this could turn into a relationship. I don't think that she would get scared from that. Good luck
2006-12-12 11:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, which is based on only my experiences, telling her is your only option. If you let it go on without telling her, you're just going to hurt yourself. Get it out in the open so the ball will be in her court. There's a good chance she's feeling what you are, and possibly wondering whether or not to tell you. Letting it go unspoken for too long is almost like lying; because then you have to pretend to just be her friend.
2006-12-12 11:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jennalove311 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello
This is a tuff situation for sure.
But think that the best way to handle it is to just ask her how she feels and go from there.
Do make it a big thing just keep it on the low
Best of luck
2006-12-12 11:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As i've answered in a previous question of the same topic, just casually ask her if she sees you as just a friend or if she could see you as something else. be honest with her thats all it ever takes really is honesty.
2006-12-12 11:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to her and invite her to go somewhere and get a soda, do things with her and when the right time in the conversatio comes--then ask her.
2006-12-12 11:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just tell her...show her. Try something small at 1st. like send her some flowers whens shes at work or send a sweet text.....SLOWLY show it so u don't scare her off
2006-12-12 11:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by kornbabe1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋