It feels like sometimes I'm SO underappreciate by people! I am a very humerous person (not nasty or anything though) but some people are SO SERIOUS they think everything you say should be taken in a bad way! I feel so misunderstood and underappreciate sometimes! Meanwhile these same people play favorites with each other and ignore me! Whatever!
2006-12-12 03:17:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know exactly what you're talking about. they take life seriously, and you don't. well i hope you feel better knowing that they are the one's w/the problem, not you! the best thing to do is find people to hang out with who have the same philosophy as you.
2006-12-12 03:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just what you mean on that level. I'm to the point where I usually just work alone off in a corner by myself and so be it. Yet when those people look to me for favors they get a flat out no. I've blown up a couple of times and that changes things for a while. Just be yourself. People like us will find you eventually and all will be well. Hope it helps.
2006-12-12 11:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way a lot of times. Im very shy so people automatically assume I am snobby. Its not fair, but a lot of people do judge others and you cant change a person but you can change their opinions. Just be your regular self and the true people you WANT in your life will like you just the way you are.
2006-12-12 11:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by afallenstar26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have more deep conversations with people you want to like you. Let them know how you feel about life. Everyone's opinion is different, sometimes finding out that the people you like have the same interests as you and beliefs allows you to understand them more. If you understand them more, maybe you'll realize why they are or are not understanding you.
Do you give off mixed signals? Sometimes you like this type of guy, other times you like that type. Stick to your beliefs and be confident about who you are. Never try to be someone else because you think that's who they want you to be. Be yourself, you'll find people like you more.
SMILE! It shows confidence!
2006-12-12 11:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Loose the drama.
2006-12-12 11:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these people are supposed to be your friends, they are not. Find a new crowd where you fit in. Good luck
2006-12-12 11:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life!!! Do what makes you happy and loose the bores!!
2006-12-12 11:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Nile Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like 99% of the
these days my wife doesn't even understand me
2006-12-12 11:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i hear ya...but that's life. That's when you start to appreciate your true friends/family members who love you for YOU and let you be who you are. celebrate yourself...i'm sure you're great!
2006-12-12 11:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time--but then no one really knows anyone completely.
2006-12-12 11:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋