this is for the lads.....why do u always lie? what u scared about? do u ever respect girls?

Question

my boyfriend always lies but ive always been honest to him.
OK let me get to my point , silly things he done says his getting his car exaust fixed but heard in a convisation that he wants a bigger exaust, he said sorry like always and wasnt sure if i mind but the sad thing is he took the big exaust of in the first place coz it gave him headaches.
Another thing his phone rings and cancels quick, i say ur phones ring and he say no im playing a game then later he conffessed saying he didnt want to lend his car our, what does he think im worried for, yes i thought he was cheating coz thats what a girls going to thing.
So why do u bother boys?

Answer 1

Women tend to be overanalytical about things and men just don't want to deal with the communication part.

Men lie about everything but do you also think then women are all saintly and never lie?

It is the way of the world and will most likely never change.

Answer 2

First, I am always honest that's how I was brought up.
Second thing Honestly I think your to mature for your partner bf or other. I would say it's like babysitting a teenager at times am I right.
Third if you have ever had doubts about him cheating and are sick of his lies I would leave.

P.S I am not trying to be nasty, but you asked me to be honest right and sometimes the only people that will tell you the truth are really good friends and strangers.

Answer 3

Here is an honest answer from a guy!

He sounds like a chav! Chavs buy big exhausts and put them on shite cars! go out with a guy who does not have a suped up fiesta or corsa or saxo and can afford a decent car in the first place! unless your 15 and in that case what do you know about men! or life in general!

Answer 4

We never get that you can see through us quite as much as you do (like with your bf). Tho' I can't really speak for your yr guy ..

Believing that we are not up to it deflates the ego. And without ego, how can we compete and achieve ..

It is a mindset. And not all have the same reasons for being so.

With time, we might put off some of these ways ..

But as you say, it is pointless.

Answer 5

Andrew: Jane, will you bypass out with me? i have loved you for the longest time. Jane: Oh, Andrew. of route i am going to! Andrew: Oh, somewhat, carry on. Are you going to be falsely accusing me of rape any time quickly? because...I gotta tell ya, i have heard some undesirable issues about you sneaky white women persons and that i'm not truly up for that. Jane: *Throws drink and storms off* Yeah, probably perfect now to not invite the girl. And no, i am going to't be ruining a guy with rape allegations any time quickly...

Answer 6

its weird i do the same thing kinda. he is either a compulsive liar in which case he will just continue to lie about the most little things because thats the habbit he has got, its not a good.

or he is scared of your reactions to certain things and wants to make things easier for you to except in which case you are always on his case to much!

or he is cheating!

Answer 7

OK, 'I've always been honest to him', really?

I've met fakes in the past, so his exhaust broke and he decided to take the opportunity to upgrade it and his mum or dad tried calling him and he wanted to be with you instead, that's the most likely truth and you aren't worth his attention you sad skank.

Answer 8

Your biggest problems are he doesn't want to lend his car out? and he wants a bigger exaust? shocker get out quick if i was you.

Answer 9

Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, it sounds like your boyfriend lies but that dosnt mean we all do..... i think you are being a bit bitter... Get a new bloke! he sounds whack!!!!! 2 +2 = 4 see i dont lie

Answer 10

Hmmm................. not all lads tell lies. Sounds like your guy is a bit under the thumb and a little afraid of telling you the truth. MAybe you nag too much xxxx