me and my boyfriend has been dating for almost 2 years and i just found out that my best friend likes him and is tring to brake us up.She is tring every thang that she has to have him. .He told me that he is never going to leave me but i don't no anymore!What should i do to stop to for happening!Please help me
2006-12-12 03:10:19 · 31 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called TRUST. Either you have it or you don't.
Maybe your friend spells better than you. ;)
2006-12-12 03:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Boodie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you call her your "best" friend? Best friends would not do this. Dump her. Then have trust in your boyfriend. If he leaves you for someone new and unknown that is his problem. You say you have your eyes on another guy anyways. The only reason you are not dishing your current boyfriend is because this new guy hasn't been hooked yet. Sounds like you are young and still have a lot of dating to do.
2006-12-14 02:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all lose her as a friend. What kind of friend would do that?
If your bf says he is never going to leave you don't even worry. She is just being a fool. Stay away from her. She obviously has some issues if she wants break you and your bf up and ruin your friendship. She is crazy. Maybe she was using you to get closer to your bf. Who knows some bitches are crazy.
2006-12-12 03:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyChic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion, if you have not taken this step already, is to let him know about the feelings your friend has for him. Then ask him how he feels about it. When it is all said and done, leave the subject alone.
You do not want voice your anger about your "friends" nerve on a daily basis, it will irritate the heck out of your guy as well as being a constant reminder to him of another womans desire for him. Which in turn, will put ideas in his head that could lead to action.
Also...........ditch the witch.....................a true friend would never tell a soul of her feelings for a best friends boyfriend, if they were of the romantic sense. A true friend would leave well enough alone.
2006-12-12 03:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Myndlynd T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She isnt your best friend anymore! No best friend does that crap . Trust your boyfriend, he wont leave you for a tramp.
She is just trying to hard to look like a fool.
Dont talk to her, and let her know that you dont apperciate what she is doing, and that you no longer want to be friends with her until she can get her act together.
2006-12-12 03:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your usual sweet self that attracted him in the first place. If you get all weird about this, your bf will pick up your vibes and decide to look around. Just ignore the situation with your best friend. He's told you he won't leave you, so believe him and trust him. If you are being your sweet self and he leaves you, he wasn't worth it in the first place.
(Meanwhile brush up on your spelling.)
2006-12-12 03:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by masha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 way?? jk, if i were you i would talk to her face to face and make her realize that he is with you and not her. If you keep stressing about this, he is going to see some insecurities in you, and question whether or not he wants to be with you. You need to be stong about the situation and act like she is a complete child. Give your bf everthing he wants so he doesnt have a reason to leave you. or you can always beat her *** to a pulp... then i bet she wont mess with him anymore...goodluck
2006-12-12 03:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about this! What she is doing is not right by any means. You need to tell her how this is affecting you and your boyfriend. Also talk to your boyfriend too to see what he thinks on this. If your friend isn't going to stop her actions, then she really isn't a friend in the first place.
2006-12-12 03:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend wouldn't do this. Kick her to the curb. Having someone like her in your life will only cause you problems. Trust me, I know. Had a friend like that and I finally woke up and saw her for what she was, haven't talked to her in 9 years.
2006-12-12 03:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by puggas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeha i have been there... well when me and my man first met she wanted him to and uh uh that wasnt going to happen.... yeah called him, flirted with him, asked him why do you want to be with her?, you noe... bullshit and then later i hear from friends that when he wouldn't give in she HATED him and tried to brake us up... and she was doing that our whole relationship... then i reliezed "hmm you noe what? that is not the kind of friend i want, she obviously isnt happy for me, shes a *****, blah blah" so were not friends (even though we had the greatest times in the world, we were like sisters) anymore... and i feel better, noeing that i dont have to worry about someone trying to make eric leave me..
now we are married... TAKE THAT (girls name here).. but yeah where im trying to get at is either talk to her or dont be her friend... what kind of friend is that?
2006-12-12 03:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by wendy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it dosent sound like she should be your BEST friend. Dosent sound to me like she's a friend at all. I would just tell her she needs to back off of your boyfriend he dosent want her skanky *** she needs to go out and find her own man and quit trying to cause drama in your relationship cause it dosent work it only makes you guys stronger and gives you something to laugh about. Tell her to grow up and find a new friend cause your done with the drama. and seriously you need to find a new friend she's a bi*tch and i'd beat the H*e*l*l out of her if she were supposed to be my friend and tried to stab me in the back oh no way that wold happen.
2006-12-12 03:15:37 · answer #11 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋