I want to have another baby but I have two kids all ready,then again I don't want to because I'm still young I about to become 21 in a few months.
2006-12-12 03:06:19 · 9 answers · asked by diamondsgirl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I was in the same boat, I am 23 and we have 2 boys and we were trying to decide. You have to ask your self if you are ready for it. I know that you will never be 100% ready, but just follow your heart. Things like will you have room [we are having to upgrade our car for something bigger to fit everyone in] Are you mentally, physically, emotionally and most important financially stable [And will the new baby get all this too?] Having a 3rd one is big change especially if you guys already have set schedule, are you ready to change that? I hope this helps and best of luck to you!
2006-12-12 03:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you want another at this point in time - if one of your kids is around the one year old mark then this is nature working! You always get broody for another baby when they get to this age - don't know why, but it's a fact, and if you wait a while it will wear off as your child gets a few months older!
2006-12-12 03:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by aunty.shaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you support more kids? I don't mean your parents, but you personally. Do any of your kids have an active father? Are your kids even from the same father? Do you plan on getting married to anyone? Do you have a stable job and are you educated?
If not, stop having sex until you can provide for more kids or until your children can have the luxury of two active parents!
Kids aren't just something to 'get' or 'have' whenever you feel the desire.
2006-12-12 03:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by sillycanuckpei 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait. You are only 20 with two children. You have at least 10 more years to have babies. Devote all your time to the children you have now, and later when you are straight on your feet, have another one. YOu will be able to enjoy it more when you are financially and emotionally more mature. A plus is that oldest one will be able to babysit...lol
2006-12-12 03:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mystie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a little bit longer maybe a year and see if you're ready from there. maybe you need time and attention for the other 2 and to find out if 2 is enough. good luckk =]
2006-12-12 03:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by x0x0sara0x0x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I was you I would wait a few years you are young and you never know where life will lead you.
2006-12-12 03:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 is enough. just enjoy them and for sure you won't regret anything in the future.
2006-12-12 03:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by sassygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the children you have.
2006-12-12 03:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋