I'm doing this for a freind - so here goes. "Okay, so my GF is bi, and her GF on the side wanted to have a 3-way - and that was cool. However, GF of GF wants to be BF now. I don't want to make this a permanent thing - but then again maybe I do, but my current GF is the angry type. I don't want to piss her off - she's really cool, but having 2 GF's does seem like fun. We seem to all get along, but I'm sure at some point in time this will get really weird. What do you think - live life to the fullest (2 GF's) or be realistic (just have 1 GF at a time)?"
Please help this man.
2006-12-12 02:54:51 · 17 answers · asked by TexasLSUTiger 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spoken from a real sistah... Love, I can see why you would be tempted. However, I am quite sure a lot of women would agree with me... WE ARE GREEDY!!! Pretty soon, both women would eventually get jealous of the other. Who's getting your time... Who's getting more money.... Who's getting served more... ??? Keeping it real!!! Save yourself the headache!!! Just have 1 GF... if you want to do the threesome thing... keep it on a "no strings attached" agreement!
2006-12-12 03:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Toya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, while it may seem fun at the moment, not having done it, or maybe he has, brining another person to the same bed with you is serious bussiness. I considered it once before and decided, once and for all, kiss- keep it simple stupid. Because anytime you bring another to bed you risk loosing your entire relationship- where is the trust in that relationship. Plus if she thinks she can get away with a woman, and then adding another man to the equalition, well she will start wanting more and more and more. Eventually as i foresee it, she will be breaking up with him to lead the singles swinger life in full swing with him in the dust. I think your friend needs to think long and hard on this. Because weather or not its a woman or not, what she is doing is cheating, and once a cheater- always a cheater.
2006-12-12 03:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with what your guts are telling you although I would not suggest doing a 3 way thing. I mean yeah you like them both but I don't think one of them is the one for you! Just go out there and try to live your life the fullest with only one girlfriend at a time. I am not going to try to force you to do this but this is highly what I would suggest! GOOD LUCK
2006-12-12 02:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it... don't do it at all.. not even if you broke up and move on it's just not "right" how you met so there isn't any real opportunity for any real relationship and you will probably just move onto the next one, get bored and then be left out in the cold all-together :)
So, you enjoyed it... now just try to get over it because it's exciting now, but it won't last and novelty wears off quickly.
2006-12-12 02:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by valley_storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is almost certainly going to cause trouble down the line. You have to carefully consider the --
no, what the hell am I saying.
Enjoy it, you lucky b*stard.
Just make sure this isn't a 'test', first. That would suck.
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And I do like the divide between girls' advice and guys' advice on this question. Are we really that stereotyped?
You people and your quaint little 'categories'...sigh.
2006-12-12 03:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point and time there is going to be trouble, so my advice is have 1 girlfriend. 2 is nothing but trouble, you may be having fun now but sooner or later it will bite you in the butt!
2006-12-12 02:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by KIM A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1GF. But you could say stuff like, I really like hanging out with you both at the same time. Or just talk to your current GF to see if you can be a permanent threesome.
2006-12-12 03:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by cng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it may be fun in the beginning but someone will get angry sooner or later. human dont do well with multiple relationships its jus how we were wired .just have 1 girl at a time.please or u alll end up being hurt when the **** hits the fan.
2006-12-12 02:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One at a time is definitely the way to go. It would be even more complicated with the situation to have two.
2006-12-12 02:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that is alread weird, Look at the wonderul situations our Pen*s can get us into.
2006-12-12 02:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋