2006-12-12 02:50:54 · 18 answers · asked by Ronald D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, boy, this is a hard one. And it will be hard.
First, you must get out as often as possible in order to meet new women. Of course, you must always be nice and friendly as possible.
Let people know you are single, and be a bit flirty with these women, if you feel you like them.
In time, you will find a woman or two, or three, who flirt a bit back at you, and these are the women you need to get to know better. Ask them for their phone number, and get to know each other through phone conversations. During these phone conversations, you can ask them how they would feel if you were to ask them out. True, they may need to drive, but if they genuinely like you, they won't mind. Be as much of a gentleman as possible. Eventually, you will find the one for you!
Best of luck to you!!!!!!
2006-12-12 02:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by peekie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have that much of a problem. I have an aunt who is blind and also know quite a few blind people who are doing great with meeting new people and dating. Good places to meet women are at events at your community blind center, thats a great way to find women with the same interests as you. Try calling a telephone chat line, thats also a way to meet some people.
Maybe you can try getting a job, technology is out there to help with your job. My aunts ex is also legally blind and currently works as a manager for some office... so yeah... im pretty sure you can get women interested in you.. wear some nice smelling cologne, dress nice, and smile... people are always watching you..maybe some hot women too!! good luck to you... I hope my gibberish can help a bit...
2006-12-12 02:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by BuNNY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to put yourself out there! Join something you are interested in, use your blindness to get women! Come up with something cute you and your friends can pull on women while you are out. Making then laugh is a good start! On-line chat rooms my be a way if you can find a local one, so you can meet in person after you've met someone. Have your friends & family fix you up. Living on SSI shouldn't have anything to do with it, it's steady income, thats a big leg lup on some guys! There are plenty of people out there lonly this time of year so jump in and good luck!
2006-12-12 02:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I hear, ssi pays pretty good. You already have a gimmic to ur benifit. I would go into the clubs with the dark glasses on and the white cane. Use the cane to get better aquainted with pretty girls. "Excuse me ma'am, I didn't know there was a fork in the road here" I know blind people are pretty talented, this proceedure should help you detect the big girls too, if you have trouble pulling ur cane back.
2006-12-12 02:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you put that you pay your fiance rent it is not believable. Especially since you have a joint account. They will want to know both incomes. I thought SSI was because of disability. Do you have a second disabiity income? You probably dont qualify for food stamps. I am a low income senior in California and since my monthly income is over 900 I cant get any.
2016-05-22 21:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search the web an seek out groups with smiler circumstances you will bound over that and start from there plus if the other person is blind they will have low expectations lol go on a dating site or ask some one to do it 4 u as long as your not really ugly and or a complete freak then u should do OK good luck
2006-12-12 02:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by mriee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relative faces your challenges and has found internet personals to be helpful. Since he is a Christian, he uses websites oriented to his religion. You'll want to be sure that the site is reputable, but using the 'net to meet people allows you to present yourself in a relatively low-risk environment.
Too, you might consider volunteering at a community center or another charitable organization.
Your Miss Right will not care about your sightedness or your income.
2006-12-12 03:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by James and Cynthia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the coolest motha' on the face of this earth. Be a flirt, in a utterly sensible way. You have to make yourself comfortable around women in general. Know what they like and know what you want. Take your breath and don't rush!
2006-12-12 02:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by J Brewhah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"You" are not your sight or your income. "You" are mind, soul, and body. If your body has a handicap,you have probably had to increase your mind and soul to survive. Use those resources to attrack a woman. You might be surprised at the response.
2006-12-12 02:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women really dont care about that, I dont think, but just be nice to them and show them what a great person you really are.
2006-12-12 02:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋