Do you still think about them??Even if you have been seperated for years?and even if you are now in love with someone else? x
Just wondering! x
2006-12-12 02:50:16 · 29 answers · asked by jo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhh some of these stories are lovely!!Thankyou for sharing them with me!! x
2006-12-12 03:13:20 · update #1
yes i do. its true what they say- you will never forget your first love, just like you wont forget your "first time" they are imprinted in your mind and in your heart. you wont ever fall in love with someone and forget about them. no matter how long you have moved on, they are still there. you have a part of them and they have a part of you. and my first love definitely has a part of me. and i have a part of him. i still can remember everything that we have been thru. all the times we have talked, what was said. i dont remember all the times we kissed except for one. i remember it like it just happened today. and when i close my eyes i can still feel his lips touching mine. and can still smell his cologne. i still remember the feeling of his hands holding mine. and i remember exactly how i felt when we shared that special moment. i feel it right now, even as im typing this. to think about it still sets my heart on fire- literally. and as much as i didnt want to admit it in the past, i can truly say that he was my first love.
2006-12-12 03:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by DropdEadGorgEous! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so my first love i met my fresman year of high school he was a senior and on the varsity footbaall team. I dated him for 4 years he was so sweet and kind. He was the one i lost my virginity too. I loved him with my whole heart as he claimed to love me. Eric ( the boyfriend) had a cheating problem. He cheated on me with just about everyone under the sun (pretty much) and when i would find out he'd beg for my forgiveness and stupid me loved him and i'd take him back for him to just lie to me say he'd never do it again and he did. finally i got tired of it and breaking up with him was the hardest thing i have ever had to do. Shortley (very shortley) after him i met another guy who was everything and more that i had been looking for. I married him and have been married for 4 1/2 years we've been together for 5 but there is not a day that goes by that i dont think about my ex. He still has a big place in my heart and its hard for me to let go. I still have pictures of him (hidden) and everytime a song comes on that reminds me of him i get tears in my eyes. I'm in love with my husband and i have a great life but yes i do think about my ex everyday. I dont know why i just cant get over it yet. its sad really cause i should hate him for everything he did to me but yet i dont. hmmmmm
2006-12-12 02:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my first love when I was 14, we split up when I was 17, I thought about him often through out the years and always on his birthday. I met him after 27years and discovered he had never stopped loving me too, we have been together for nearly three years now and treasure every single moment we share. We will not make the same silly mistakes again as we cherish our everlasting love
2006-12-12 03:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is why the Lord, in his infinite wisdom, gave you a brain.
You had a great first love, I'm guessing also a lot of good memories and time together and obviously you have found someone else.
The real question is, have you really moved on? Did something happen to make you want to see your first love again and find out if there is any chance that the two of you are really meant to be together after all?
Does your thoughts are really longings in disguise, you have to be honest with yourself, find out what you really want, and if your new man loves you and is understanding, maybe you can talk about it tactfully with him, and see what's what.
We all have past loves. Consider yourself lucky that you and yours was a good one, and if it's time to move on with a new man please do so!
good luck!
2006-12-12 03:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not really, but then again that could mean that I have never really been in love. Who knows. All in all I would say that if the relationship doesn't work out... then it wasn't meant for you.. no need to dwell over the past, just hope for the future.
2006-12-12 02:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 39 now i met my first love when i was 16, there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of him, we bumped into each other after 15 years apart had a bit of a fling, he was with someone and so was i. Met up again last year, and he only lives down the road from me!!! i still dream of him and think of him regularly, one day i think 3rd time lucky??? he is married, mypartner has just left me!!! so who knows if i bump into him again, it would make my day.
2006-12-12 05:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by ann_jacques 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first woman i really loved was called jo she was married i was married but it was love allright been 16 years since ive been remarried to a buetifull woman the last 10 years who left me sept tore me apart bolt out the blue still love her but she dont love me found out jo split from hubby been in touch after 16 years so who knows just may be she allways was my first true true love if i could wish for anything it would be to spend the rest of my life with jo o heaven
2006-12-12 03:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by rabbit18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i look on my partner as my first proper love but i do think about the person i lost my virginity to who i thought at the time was my first love.
2006-12-12 03:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by onlyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i totally understand, i have been apart from my first love 4 1 year and 1 month and have been dating my current bf for 1 year and love him to death but still think about my ex(first love) alot!
2006-12-12 02:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still very good friends with my "first love",and her husband.
We "went out" for 3 years about 25 years ago.
There is nothing sexual in our friendship,we are more like brother and sister.
2006-12-12 03:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋