I have a friend we dated a while bakc...then she broke up with me ... she hurt me bad...then she moved away...far away... now she's talking to me agian and wants to give us another try...she was my first 'true love' what should i do...can anyone help me
2006-12-12 02:48:51 · 12 answers · asked by David C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well now that she is taking to you again take your time to know each other give it time only time will tell if you guys were meant for each other dont rush into things unless the situation and feelings have really changed what makes you think this will be so different than the first time the last thing you want is to get hurt again so just give it some time and learn to be patient
2006-12-12 02:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive in love..but I had an experience where my high school sweet heart and I.. after high school eventually lost contact..he moved to college and I stayed here in ny..I visted him the best I can but eventually we stop calling each other...7-10 years later we ran into each other at a night club..2 years later he decided that he wanted to give us a try to make a long story short it did not work out ..he was a totally diferent person than what I knew in high school..after about 9 months of dating he broke it oof with me..one weekend he went a way to a college sorres and when he came back that sunday he broke if off with me..I was hurt..but i am also 100% happy today..everything happens for a reason..Imean you could give it a try but will you be upset if it didnt work out...
2006-12-12 02:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still far far away then I would avoid the long distance relationship thing, it is hard to do.
And ifshe is back and you still like her then I would say give it a try. You are older now and know not to get too attached too fast. Just go out and see how things go. Maybe this time around she will really get attached and you won't have any interest at all in her. You never know until you try.
2006-12-12 02:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing that came to my mind was "move on" however if your willing to put behind you the hurt she caused you in the past go for it but know that people change and be prepared that odds are she is not going to be the same person you once loved
2006-12-12 02:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but to start a relationship I believe there has to be some kind of phsical attraction. After the relationship is started I believe that the two should still take care of themselves but I don't believe one should have complete and utter control over how the other looks.
2016-05-22 21:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it another try and tell her how you felt before so if she's planning to hurt you again you can't take the chance to give it another chance. Oh and don't go to fast act normal around each other forget about last time like you were nver together before and then work your way up. If anything starts to go wrong try and fix it then unless you or she can take the pain again. Or if its not working out in the early parts try and fix it if you can't break up then please before you get to attached.
2006-12-12 02:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing to do. Tell her that you joined a monastery, and are celibate. Otherwise, you might consider talking to her and trying to find out how she feels about you. Maybe, perhaps, she realizes that she made a mistook when breaking up with you.
2006-12-12 02:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all distance is not a factor in a relationship, if you loveher and trust her then give it another try!
2006-12-12 03:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship rarly work...if you have a bad history...I woud think you are wasting your time, and risking another piece of your heart.
2006-12-12 02:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, or you may find yourself being hurt again. If you truly care for her, be receptive to her, but don't put your heart out there, just yet!
2006-12-12 02:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋