My husband is making our 15 year-old daughter get breast implants. He says it is for her benefit but he insists on choosing the size and doctor. My daughter is confused but my husband keeps buying her gifts to soften her up. Should I let this go ahead or do I put my foot down on this?
2006-12-12 02:38:40 · 27 answers · asked by Jessy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No doctor in his right mind will do that to a 15 year old because they are not done growing yet. If a doctor will do that to a 15 year old, then you found yourself a bad doctor, and alot of things can go wrong. I find that a little weird that your husband, her father, wants her to have bigger boobs. While most parents would be happy with a normal cup for that age. Your daugthers health can be at risk if you let him do this.
2006-12-12 04:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a mom and say no way. I am a Dad and would never recommend that my daughter get them let alone at 15. I would only give my opinion, if they were older and they asked for my opinion. Is he trying to have her on the pole by 17 or what? He sounds like a really bad loser and doesn't deserve the title of Dad. Talk with your daughter to see if he is touching her too? Sorry to be so up front but you gotta step up this just ain't right. BE A MOM!!!!!!!! and handle your business....
2006-12-12 02:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer, call a divorce lawyer, pack up some stuff, grab your daughter out of school and leave. No self-respecting father would ever force his daughter to get breast implants. That is just sick and demented. Get you and your daughter away from the maniac you married as quickly as possible.
2006-12-12 02:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rell Smooth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes not through growing yet and why in the world does he care about her breast size? This seems very bizarre.
She doesn't want them and shes the one that has to go through surgery and the rest of her life with breast implants.
There should be no question at all as to the answer to this one.
No!
Does he have some kind of weird sexual fantasy about his own daughter. Strange, strange.
I also think you will be letting your daughter down if you let him make her. Protect her!
2006-12-12 02:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by ironica7 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down!! This is obserd, your daughter is 15 years old and not even finished growing naturally yet! Why would your husband care that much about her breast size, to force her to get implants?!?!
2006-12-12 02:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Taryn 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously put my foot down! At 15 years old she is still developing. And why does he care so much? That is what I would be questioning. If she doesn't want them, it's her body. he can't force her to do that. You need to get to the bottom of this. Also ask your daughter if her father has ever made any sexual comments or advances. This is just creepy. Good luck.
2006-12-12 02:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by skybelle24 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! don't let it happen. Your hubby should be shot for doing anything like that. First of all, they're not his breasts. Second, why does he feel that they are too small. that's a little creepy to me. Third, your daughter needs to accept who she is. Bigger breasts don't help in getting an honorable man, because an honorable doesn't feel that looks are as important as the person.
2006-12-12 02:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is a joke.
If it's not, you need to stand up to him. No one should be "made" to get implants. 15 is too young anyway, and any doctor who would give them to someone that young must not have any morals.
Why does your husband care about your daughters size anyway..that's kinda creepy and I'd wonder if he's a pedifile or something.
2006-12-12 02:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy and if you can't convince him it is wrong you should report this to Social Services for intervention as well as the AMA for the sicko Dr who would mutilate a child in this manner. She is 15 and still developing - no girl or woman should ever be forced into a form she does not want. Please put a stop to this it is criminal and will ruin your child's life.
2006-12-12 02:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You husband needs to be checked real good, if he actually loved and cared for his daughter he would be trying to talk her out of it, at least at this age. If he is concerned (but I am now convinced he is disturbed) about his daughter being too small, then she could be a late bloomer, she is young. But either way, there is something disturbing about your husband, but only you would know for sure?????????
2006-12-12 02:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋