For Girls Only!! (Mom's of babies too!)?

Question

About a few months ago I was suppose to have my period and I didn't. One day me and my boyfriend kind of messed around. And my stomach hurt and it felt like someone was kicking me in the stomach, I was very nervous because I may be pergnant. I am only 16 and I want to knew what happens if you are pergnant (the side affects) are and plus an adivce from mom's? Thanks

Answer 1

First thing go get a test. Here is a list of common early symptoms:
Implantation Bleeding:
Implantation bleeding can be one of the earliest pregnancy symptoms. About 6-12 days after conception, the embryo implants itself into the uterine wall. Some women will experience spotting as well as some cramping.
Delay/Difference in Menstruation:
A delayed or missed menstruation is the most common pregnancy symptom leading a woman to test for pregnancy. When you become pregnant, your next period should be missed. Many women can bleed while they are pregnant, but typically the bleeding will be shorter or lighter than a normal period. This symptom is commonly explained by other reasons. If you have been sexually active and have missed a period, it is recommended that you take a test: Order my pregnancy test
Swollen/Tender Breasts:
Swollen or tender breasts is a pregnancy symptom which may begin as early as 1-2 weeks after conception. Women may notice changes in their breasts; they may be tender to the touch, sore, or swollen.
Fatigue/Tiredness:
Feeling fatigued or more tired is a pregnancy symptom which can also start as early as the first week after conception.
Nausea/Morning Sickness:
This well-known pregnancy symptom will often show up between 2-8 weeks after conception. Some women are fortunate to not deal with morning sickness at all, while others will feel nauseous throughout most of their pregnancy.
Backaches:
Lower backaches may be a symptom that occurs early in pregnancy; however, it is common to experience a dull backache throughout an entire pregnancy.
Headaches:
The sudden rise of hormones in your body can cause you to have headaches early in pregnancy.
Frequent Urination:
Around 6-8 weeks after conception, you may find yourself making a few extra trips to the bathroom.
Darkening of Areolas:
If you are pregnant, the skin around your nipples may get darker.
Food Cravings:
While you may not have a strong desire to eat pickles and ice cream, many women will feel cravings for certain foods when they are pregnant. This can last throughout your entire pregnancy.

Answer 2

Have you had your period since? If you haven't then you very well may be pregnant. The side effects? Well if you want to call them that are you gain weight, your breasts hurt, you may get morning sickness (which is nausea that can come at any time). If you actually felt a 'kick' that would mean you are around 18 weeks pregnant. If you really are concerned you are pregnant take a test. It's easy, you just pee on it and within 5 minuets or so you will know. If you are pregnant you need to see a doctor regularly to make sure the baby is okay and you are okay. If you aren't pregnant and still sexually active you need to get some birth control. 16 is a little to young. I know I was pregnant when I was 16. When I was 17 I had a little girl. She's almost 11 now and still adorable. I looked at your other questions and in one you said you were 21, took a test and were pregnant and didn't know how to tell your mom. Are you just trying to get reactions out of people or is this a serious, truthful question?

Answer 3

I don't get the whole "felt like someone was kicking me in the stomach" thing. If you were referring to a baby kicking you...it usually doesn't hurt and if you are only a few months pregnant than you probably wouldn't be feeling any kicking yet.
Anyhow..I would go get a test because that's the only way to know for sure.
If you are pregnant than I would suggest talking with your mom or an adult that you trust about what's going on. I had my first child at 23 and it was very hard at that age...i honestly can't imagine what it would be like to go through all that at 16. I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out. You'll be OK

Answer 4

If you have not had your period in a few months its best you get a pregnancy test. It takes for first time pregnancies to feel the baby move it takes about 5 months. Sometimes you wont have any symptoms because every pregnancy is different. You may just be paranoid but most symptoms are morning sickness, sensivity to odor, and tender breast exc. I had my first child at 15 and it was very hard and still is. Take a test and if its positive see a doctor if its negative take action to prevent it from happening so young. Your not even old enough to go out and have fun yet so slow down and enjoy your teen years before it is taken up by a child.

Answer 5

I got pregnant too when I was 16. I am now a grandma at the age of 36 with a 20 year old son and daughter in law who is 21. If you are not pregnant be careful and don't get pregnant so young. It is a struglle trying ot raise a kid if you are still a kid yourself. I knew I was going to get pregnant even before I had sex with the guy. So, without a doubt I knew it was going to happen. I actually did not have any symptoms. I was spotting when I was supposed to start my period. It hurt the first time I had sex and for some reason he could not penetrate me. Sorry to be so forward but that is a sign too. If anything, if you are feeling sick, or perhaps discomfort during intercourse, perhaps you should do to planned parenthood for an exam and pregancy test.

Answer 6

If your stomach hurt after messing around that would not be a sign of pregnancy. However if you had unprotected sex there could be a possibility that you are pregnant. I would go buy a test and take it if you have not had your period. Usually the first signs of pregnancy is lack of having your period, nausea and feeling very tired all of the time. If you are not pregnant I suggest that before you continue to have sex that you either go on the pill or make him wear a condom. It is always a good idea to have the man wear a condom anyway to prevent the transmittal of any diseases whether you are on the pill or not...I wish you luck...I was 19 when I got pregnant it was really HARD....you are only 16...it is really best to wait!!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

If you are like 3-4 months late your probably are. You need to go to the doctor so your baby has the best possibal care out there. You need to tell your parents, I know its hard but i was pregnant at 15 and I promise, your mom might get upset, but will always love you and help you through any problem. Please get some help and tell your mom. Its would also help to take a pregnancy test before you do anything so you know what direction your going in. Best of Luck to you hunny and feel free to email if you have any questions, I have had two kids in my teens and can help answer ant questions you have.

Answer 9

Honey go take a test. If its been months then theres a good chance your pg. Dont worry though, I was 16 when I had my baby and everything is working out beautifully. You have to find out for sure so that you can go to the doctors and make sure everythings okay with you and the baby(if there is one) Ask your mom or another adult that your close to for help. In the end everything happens for a reason and Im sure you will be fine.

Answer 10

first of all, you cant get pregnant unless his sperm got into your vagina. so if that didnt happen, you shouldnt be too concerned. but, if its been several months and you still havent gotten a period, you should ask your mom to take you to the ob/gyn. this can be a sign not only of pregnancy,but also bigger problems concerning your reproductive health. but sometimes your body gets really off schedule calendar-wise (especially at your age and if youre not taking birth control), so SOMETIMES you can 'miss' a period and it means nothing.

if you are pregnant, you will have stopped mensturating, your breasts may be tender or larger (same goes for the nipples), you may feel sick in the mornings, and you might have cravings for certain foods.