me and my boyfriend had been together for nearly 2years, we were completely infatuated with each other unseperable, he was completely obsessed with me in every way. about a month before he was still telling me how much he loved me-gave me an abserloutely amazing birthday. but before that we were arguing a bit(not much tho) but we made up and everything was forgotten suddenly i move into my own place away from my parents and he has finished with me(a month before he was telling me how he wanted to move in with me)he says he cant stand the arguing and wants to move to america to get on with his life- i tell him that i will come with him but he wont believe me. he was so upset leaving me i think he still has feelings. but i left it a few days and then i text him to see if he would meet up for a chat and he is cold towards me-as if he's only met me once before . now he has finally agreed to meet up tommorrow.what can i do to win him back-i feel like i dont want to live my life without him
2006-12-12 02:20:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-12 02:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by sexynurse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alternatively of talking to the general public and expressing the way you consider about this man to us you need to express it to him. Inform him exactly what you've advised us. Men are not relatively just right listeners and so they love proof, regrettably. You can't simply inform a person that you love him and what you'll do for him, you must show and prove. First of all whilst you meet up with him say sorry on your part in the arguing and combating, that is to not say that you are at fault however any individual has to be the bigger person and it can be ordinarily the feminine that must be that larger man or woman. 2d, ask him what about you relocating getting your possess house made him so upset? Provide an explanation for to him that you simply having your possess house would supply the two of you the gap you need to be alone. You also must hold in mind that there maybe whatever occurring in his existence that he's dealing with that you're not aware of on account that he's no longer sharing it. It can be anything problematic for him to handle. I am just a little burdened though, is he in america or is he nonetheless where ever you're? If he is still with you, then you may also wish to plan a romantic date for the 2 of you at your situation probably. If he's no longer inclined to come back there up front then met him out after which offer to have him again to your location for drinks, a movie or something. Proper now you must get him by myself and speak. Get the whole thing out in the open. You have to put your coronary heart on the road at this factor. I wish you good fortune.
2016-08-10 01:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without marriage, relationships between men and women are neither permanent nor secure. And when there are no promises and guarantees, then it doesn't makes sense for a guy to sacrifice much for his girl.
Perhaps your boyfriend wants to earn some money and establish a career in USA. Doing this is difficult enough on its own. And perhaps he doesn't want to be thinking and taking care of you at the same time.
2006-12-12 02:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you really want to make it work then you will have to compromise. In every relationship you need to make sacrifices.
Sit down and iron out the matters one by one, do not get angry just rational it our together. For every problem there must be a solution.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 02:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to reassure him that you do love him and want to be with him. Ask him if he feels the same way. If he does, great. If not, it will stink, but move on and don't look back. If things were ment to be, it will happen, the next guy you meet might be the one.
2006-12-12 02:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings are this strong for him then you should do all you can to win him back. Give him compliments on his dressing and encourage him in every way you can. Tell him how much he means to you and don't give him any opportunity to criticize you in any way. Communicate with him and tell him the truth. Don't assume anything or take anything for granted and lest of all him.
2006-12-12 02:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is meant to be he will come back you should ask him what he wants be honest ask him why he is acting like this ask him if he wants to be with you and if he does if he still loves you and tell him that you love him but you won't accept that he constantly turns off and on his feelings for you tell him you take me as I am or let someone else have me because you want someone who will love and honor you and in return you can do the same for them be honest tell him how you feel but don't get frustrated because he will think that you are emotionally unstable so tell him how you feel and take time to listen and watch his body language to see if he's paying attention to what your saying and let him know that you are also confused and this hasn't been any easy on you because you don't know what to feel or think because he keeps switching his feelings for you and it is hurting you because one minute you want to be with me and the next you don't want me and stop trying to convince him he wants to be with you because that makes a guy think you are too needy and that you are emotionally unstable to them make him feel you don't want him act casual he will come running to you don't chase him let him do it guys will never really tell you this but they like to chase and do things for their mate but we have to let them do it so they will feel that you accept whatever it is they have and that you are the right one for him and good luck to you I hope you get what you desire
2006-12-12 02:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that your still in love with him and if that dont work give him gifts and ask him out
2006-12-12 02:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he isn't just con-ing you? If he loves you, he'll want to be with you. End of story...
2006-12-12 02:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, thats what he fell inlove with.
Dont play games.
Just be yourself.
2006-12-12 02:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋