Can this save a relationship? Why and Why not ?
2006-12-12 02:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. But when lies break down and are uncovered, even if years after the fact, the reaction is usually a devistating one.
So, it isn't suggested...even if all people lie.
It also depends on how big of a lie you are trying to set out. Is it that you flirted with someone or got into their pants? Is it that you don't like their mom or is it that you slept with their mom? See, levels of severity.
I am totally honest with my partners, but then again...ALL people lie. It just depends on how much you are lying and what you are trying to cover up.
Good....
You HATE the way he folds the towels and it drives you MAD. You ignore it because you pick and choose your fights.
Bad....
You HATE the way he talks, smells, thinks, snores, and is in bed. So, you have an affair and now find the guy more tolerable because you are detached. You end the affair because you magically realize this was a bad idea and you keep it all a secret because you don't want to hurt the guy...this is BAD and will cause EXPLOSIVE ANGER. Bad idea.
See the difference?
2006-12-12 02:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. the truth will come out eventually and leave you or your significant other hurt. in the end it will harm a relationship more than save it
2006-12-12 02:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by twistedtexan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a terrible saying for relationships. Some things are better left unsaid but not when it comes to a trusting relationship...
2006-12-12 02:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could but you have to think what if someday they were to find out it would all be over and they wouldnt want anything to do with someone that didnt tell them something that could have ruined there relationship but then again they would think of how long you keept it a secret they would think what else have you not told me
2006-12-12 02:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by ash16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, this is something that will hurt you or it would not be kept from you in the first place.
2014-12-17 08:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by katrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they dont find out...do you want to live your life wondering if they will.
2006-12-12 02:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think being in any relationship with rose colored glasses on is a healthy thing
2006-12-12 02:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. b/c u eventually find out and it make it worse b/c uve added lying on top of whatever u did
2006-12-12 02:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u dont know wont hurt you? no
What u dont know could kill you.
2006-12-12 02:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by That Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋