I'm in a hard situation right now... I have 2 close friends at the moment. They both know about each other and they both want to be in a relationship with me. I've been knowing both of them for quite a while now and I really don't know what to do because I'm afraid I will make the wrong decision. One friend (lets call him Guy) is a real sweet person. Guy doesn't have much to offer me but his love and emotional support And I love him for that. But he can't offer me any financial support and I need that since I am a single parent of a 4 year old.The other friend ( lets call him Man) is a nice person also. He provides me with the financial support I need. When I'm in a bind he comes to my rescue. Although he is not too romantic he does have a lil soft side. Guy cannot help me when I get into a bind or if my son needs anything, but my son loves him to death. I really dont know what to do or who to choose. Can someone give me some advice PLEASE!!!
2006-12-12 02:17:55 · 5 answers · asked by licibaby85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to say sister. Guy vs. Man. Love or Stability. Stick with Guy.
2006-12-12 02:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Souled Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that's a tough one. I would have to say follow your heart. Do you hear that little voice in the back of your head telling you what to do? You should always listen to that. If you really can't decide then flip a coin. Hopefully someone else will have some better advice for you. That's tough. Good luck!!
2006-12-12 10:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beach bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be looking at either of them as a potential pay packet!! Of course, if they are are going to be in a long-term committed relationship with you then your child will become part of their responsibility as the two of you undoubtedly come as a package.
In this instance though, you must decide with your heart. What's more important? Love or money?
2006-12-12 10:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like money is the most important thing to you. So follow your money grubbing heart.
2006-12-12 10:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta discuss it with ur guy and man and ur kid! each and every detail...pls forgiv if i hav given any wrong answer as im younger to u in age!Godblz
2006-12-12 10:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by HereToAnswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋