okay so basically like i am so in love with my boyfriend matt but like because he lives about hour and a half away from me and it sucks and i get to see him at his hockey games and stuff what can i do to make this work ?
2006-12-12 02:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just keep in constant contact. but dont be TOO clingy.. it could work the opposite way and he could think you are smothering him. so try to set up time where you are both free to talk on the phone.. good luck
2006-12-12 02:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_g_grl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want it to work, you have to trust in it. The potential for it working for eternity is slim to none, and keep focussed on the long term here. The chances that you will end up together forever, is very low. And, if it is going to happen, it will just be. You should have to try so hard to make it happen. You can only wait and see. The only way I can see to make it work, is to make a bond with him that is stronger than all. Write to each other, share all you know about your hopes and dreams. And, dont get fixated on that great feeling of being in love. Love and life are more than that! Especially when you are all grown up!! Spending time together is fun and great, but make it special! Make it magical. Find things to do, set goals together, discover things and learn things. Because later in life you will look back on these moments and remember them!!
2006-12-12 10:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't need to type exactly how you talk... You can make yourself sound a lot smarter if you don't say 'like' all the time... About your question: Long distance relationships are hard... How old are you??? And how long have you been dating him??? If your old enough, and been dating long enough mabey you can try to move closer to him, if you 'Love' him that much...
2006-12-12 10:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is do your best. An hour and a half is hard and romance can be fickle... but connecting on your phones, on IM, on blogs or myspace or whatever can really help to bridge the distance.
2006-12-12 10:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mindy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally long distance relationships do not work, but if you 2 try and really want this work then find little things that let each other person know how much you love them
2006-12-12 10:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move closer
meet 1/2 way...
45 minute is NOT a lot of time to spend to be in each other's arms...
2006-12-12 10:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet up one weekends.
catch his game every chance you get.
call him everyday and tell him you love him.
girl, if you love him you can make this work.
Just make sure he don't cheat with anyone behind you back, or you cheatin' him for that matter.
2006-12-12 10:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to speak properly.
2006-12-12 10:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me that at your age you'll be over him in about, oh say......45 minutes.
2006-12-12 10:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by T S 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋