We were together for 5 months, my longest relationship yet. We are decorating the Christmas tree, and then he suddenly breaks up with me. He says that with school and work, there is no time for us. He also says that some stuff has been bothering him for a wile but he did not want to talk about it.
2006-12-12 02:16:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There could be a lot of problems going on inside his head. Obviously he cares or he wouldn't of been putting up the Christmas tree with you. He could be stressed about the holidays, something personal has came up, or he's just confused on what he wants in life. So my best advice is to leave him alone don't call him and let him come around b/c if he really cares for you WHEN HE"S ready to talk, don't force it or he will pull away further, speaking from experience. He also may be depressed I really don't know but just let him have his space.
2006-12-12 02:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times, boys who are in relationship that are going well, he will sabotage. This is by no fault of your own. Sometimes they just don't know how to be happy. Other times, they don't feel like they can talk with you about the problems so they end up bottling it up and making stupid decisions (because they are boys).
2006-12-12 02:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by spazzmatic1128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I don't know what to tell you. I recently went through this with my boyfriend. He maybe dealing with old relationship issues and he doesn't want to get hurt. Try to be his friend and get him to open up. If he is worth it to you and he feels the same way about you, he'll be back. Good Luck
2006-12-12 02:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋