Hey, I talk to this girl on the internet who ive known for a couple of months and she only lives 10 minutes away and wants to meet me but im a shy guy and dont have much experience..should i not meet her to save her the disapointment? or can you give me a few tips on meeting..
thanks
2006-12-12 02:16:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've talked on the Net and gotten to know her, and she likes you enough to want to meet, you could even tell her that you're nervous about it and you do want to meet but that you're typically pretty shy in person. If she's really interested in you, she'll be cool with that and it will keep her from being surprised when you meet.
I'm a shy guy who has nevertheless had pretty good success with relationships. A lot of girls actually like shy guys; we're just hard to meet and get to know.
2006-12-12 02:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by mightyatom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet at a public place for coffee or something. The sooner you meet the better, you don't want to contine a cyber relationship that isn't going anywhere. Also be prepared, people lie online; she might have told you she was 125lbs and show up being a plump 220 lbs. Remeber the person you got to know and don't pay so much attention to the outward appearance.
2006-12-12 02:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pass this up and remain shy forever. Be yourself when you meet her. Don't forget to shower.
2006-12-12 02:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Souled Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a girls point of view.
meet her.you never know what you to expect. you might find out she is just as shy as you are. just be your self .
2006-12-12 02:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by twistedtexan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go. You will kick yourself for not trying. Go drink some beer or something then go.
2006-12-12 02:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by TC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋