we broke up. he says he still loves me, and needs time to rethink his actions?

Question

i accept that, but how much time do i give? i know to abstain from calling and seeing (which is easy since we live a lil far apart), but when do i start to maybe drop him a line here and there, or should i wait for him to call?

by "rethink his actions" , i mean rethinking the breakup. he didn't do anything to make this happen, it was me. i'm the one who has been having terrible mood swings and negativity

Answer 1

Just wait until he calls. If you call him it gives him the upper hand. Guys should never be given the upper hand,lol trust me its too much power for them and he will miss you more and want you back more if you just stay away from him. Time apart will make him realise how much you mean to him and if it doesnt then it wasnt meant to be, but i have a good feeling about this one, he'll call you within the next two months. Just wait for that call.

Answer 2

The way it is worded tells me he did something wrong "needs time to rethink his actions" but you say he still loves you. I would give him 3 days and then call, set up an appointment to talk. You need to determine if the relationship is going anywhere, and if you still want to be involved in the relationship

Answer 3

give him a couple of weeks and if he still needs time to think about things then just ask him what is taking him soo long...if he still needs more time then i think you should just forget about him and move on. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Don't be a fool. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else with you. Don't fall into that trap. Go out with your friends and have some fun. You don't need him.

Answer 5

Ask him how much time he needs. And ask yourself how long you are willing to wait.

Answer 6

oh gurl, easy, tell him to call u bak in a week, if he doesnt, then dump him and get u r self a better guy