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Should you ask him back out or just wait and be friends? I still really like him and i dont know what to do... he already likes a different girl. But you see this is like the third time we went out and he broke up with me 3 days after he asked me out again. What should i do??

2006-12-12 02:08:03 · 24 answers · asked by Hannah V 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You should ask him straight what's the matter and what's the reason for this break up thing!!!.if he says a valid reason which you think is some what right you have to leave this realtionship and ask for his friendship instead and if he is not interested in your friendship also then he does not deserve a relationship
with you in any form.I think we have to go where we are respected and back out where we are humiliated!!!!

2006-12-12 02:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by satvik 1 · 0 0

Tell him NOTHING! That is exactly it. Dont ever speak to him again. You have to believe that you deserve more respect than that. No man is worth questioning yourself over!!! And even "just friends" isnt good enough. FRIENDS respect one another. And, he has shown you none. The best revenge is living well!! Remember that!! Put on something cute, do your hair a new way, and walk tall! Stand up for yourself and live well. And even then if he wants you, say NO! Find a guy that adores you ALL the time, not just part time!

2006-12-12 10:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 1 0

move on, why would you want to be hurt more by this guy, find someone else that will treat you better and when he comes around again sorry just say 3 strikes your out. and walk away. don't give him the time of the day. he probably knows that if he sees anyone else and it doesn't work that you will be there for him, enough is enough show him that your not is property. good luck.

2006-12-12 10:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0 0

He broke up with you three times, so it's time to forget about him. He is obviously too immature to be dating and you need to find a nice guy who can handle seeing just one girl if that is what you want. I wouldn't bother asking him out or making any effort to be his friend. Just ignore him and start seeing other guys.

2006-12-12 10:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0 0

If you want to know then ask him why he broke up but to me he sounds very callous and uncaring. The least he could do was tell you. Under no circumstances are you to go out with him again and set yourself up to be hurt over and over on this guy's whim. He is out for solely himself so move on. Personally, I would just tell him off and then drop it. Give him a big thanks for breaking up and then move on to someone more mature.

2006-12-12 10:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1 0

move on. its the best thing to do. im having a very difficult time now moving on from my last break-up in July and i am still not over him, but its getting better. you just have to take it day by day and let it play out. if it was meant to be it will happen. trust me.

2006-12-12 10:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by Heather Wiggins 1 · 1 0

Some people have more liberal views of dating than other people. These people want to date for a week or a month and then move on to someone else.

2006-12-12 10:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Move on. There will be a guy who will appreciate u more than your ex. :) You cant have him in and out of your life whenever it suits him. And by going out with him again (in this context) tells him that it is okay to treat you crappy. And he will always be treating you crappy. No good.

2006-12-12 10:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 0 0

you can do one of two things you can one keep getting played and heart broken or two find a new guy and move on. this guy is a player hun cut the rope now before mr right walks right by you.

2006-12-12 10:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by jaime_0302 1 · 0 0

look girl, if he left you three times it is obvious that he doesn't like you .. sorry but i gotta be honest. If you can't live without him then fight for him, cuz u know girls do anything to reach their man's heart! .. So try doing some stuff he likes doing and show him that u really care about him .. So good luck :)

2006-12-12 10:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by TinA 2 · 0 0

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