We have been together for 6 months. He is an over the road truck driver.
2006-12-12 02:04:54 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the other folks here that say that you should ASK.
And you should do so AS SOON AS possible because the longer you let it linger in your head the more you're likely to create a whole mess of weird situations in your imagination and you'll also go through a dozen imaginary conversations with him in your mind (you've already started doing that, haven't you).
Wait too long and you'll eventually deceive yourself which is the WORST because NOTHING good can be accomplished when you've already convinced yourself of something that simply isn't true.
It might turn out that is IS true, and if so I'm terribly sorry about that, but don't go any longer from here than you must without asking and getting the REAL truth to come out. It might be a hard thing to get to (the truth), but that's the best way to keep your relationship and your own mind healthy!
Good luck!
2006-12-12 02:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you cant "think" you must "know". What if he isn't cheating on you and you accuse him? That could cause alot of problems. My mom is a truck driver and their job may seem easy but they actually do ALOT of driving and unloading the truck when they get into the docking bays. When they aren't driving, they are sleeping. I honestly don't think he would have the time nor the energy to cheat on you. All you can do is look for clues when you do see him or listen when you guys talk, is he acting weird? Unless you have proof, I wouldn't say anything right now. I wish you the best and I hope your feelings are wrong on this. Good Luck.
2006-12-12 02:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta be honest with ya here. OTR drivers and cops (sorry guys! love ya tho!) are some of the worst. With the drivers, it's usually prostitutes that are ALWAYS around the larger truck stops.
You could ask him, but an honest answer isn't likely in most cases. The only other way is follow him or have him followed. If it comes to that, though, you've got other issues.
2006-12-12 02:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Aegis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old addage "If you think he's cheating, he's cheating" is very true. Women were not blessed with a lot of strenght and grunting abilities like men, but were were blessed with something just as valuable...gut feelings. Use them. When you see him again calmly confront him. Don't get the female attitude and attack him. Simply ask him if he's been cheating. If he says yes, leave him alone (there are too many diseases out here for that crap) and if he says no, then tell him why you think he is (calmly) and see what his reaction is. If he seems shady, he's lying, leave him. If he seem genuine, believe him but keep your eyes open. But whatever you do, go with your gut! Your gut won't steer you wrong!
2006-12-12 02:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jade 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he's cheating? You need to be up front and ask him....tell him what you know and what the consequences will be if he is cheating on you. Don't stay with him....however, make sure that your suspicions are correct before you start accusing him of something that he may not be doing...may just be a communicaton problem in your relationship. Good Luck
2006-12-12 02:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even if you ask him he could lie and then have reason to be mad at you because you questioned his faithfulness so I would get more evidence before questioning. See if you can trap him in a lie or maybe surprise him on one of his stops by being there. If he is cheating you'll find out and if he's not then you can have a night with your bf. And if he does happen to be cheating then he wasn't worth it to begin with.
2006-12-12 02:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by corey m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm sorry to say but if you have that feeling its probably true and there is only one was to deal with it first ask of course then dump him ,kick him to the curve , move on !! if hes cheats hes not worth it !! listen there is a guy out there that can be faithful and will love you and honor you and even respect you so dint settle for second best or for the crumbs he is giving OK !! good luck and god bless you !
2006-12-12 02:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh well that is a very difficult situation if i were you and was aleady suspecting that go undercover do things that you dont normally do like does he have a ph...try to get the records to it find out who and who is frequently calling....follow him i mean when he is around town dont want you to go all over the nation since he is a over the road truck driver....good luck thats what i have done in the past....kind of stock them but they deserve it no one is going to make a fool out of me
2006-12-12 02:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to accept the fact that HE IS GOING TO LIE about it.
If your evidence is strong enough and your not just the jealous type, then tell him you know that he's cheating and you're leaving him.
Don't be stupid. Leave him NOW! Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-12-12 02:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he isn't any longer dishonest. do not frame of mind him and accuse him till you locate out information. Did you imagine that per chance he's enthusiastic about the infant and needs the international to attraction to close? purely because it truly is an ex - do not purely assume. you want information before you ever accuse someone.
2016-11-25 22:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋