is their a way of finding out if your parents that past away had more money stashed away then what your sister said their was.
2006-12-12 01:58:36 · 9 answers · asked by victor m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Probably a lawyer is your best bet. But it may not work. If she did it, she knew going in it might be suspect, so she may have covered her tracks with her lawyer. That means you would have to hire a lawyer to check on her lawyer...tends to get pricey. But I DO NOT agree that you are greedy, as one person wrote! It is just a matter of fairly dividing what your parents had for you all. I suspect this is not the first time your sister has been shady possibly? Sorry she treated you that way if she did. It is very difficult to deal with that sort of behavior. But that type of thing has a way of coming back on people! Good luck. You might want to just straight out ask her saying something like, " I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but I was wondering if you may have accidentally taken more than your share. How much again was it? I thought they had more than that!" There is no easy way to ask that. But watch her face carefully, especially her eyes! You may be able to tell then.
2006-12-12 02:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are talking millions of dollars, is it even worth it to find out? I ask this because it may cost you more to find out than it's worth to know. You can ask the lawyer who drew up the Will, or ask her for the paper work of their financial earnings and then subtract any outstanding debts they had.
The cost or doing this is going to be bad feeling and hardship between you and your sister for a very long time, rather she got a little extra money or not. You already lost your parents do you want to lose your sister too?
2006-12-12 10:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As yourself this-
"Is this really worth losing my sister over as well?"
I am so sorry about your parents. Many families end up in feuds after people die and the vultures swoop in. I hope you will find the peace you need.
2006-12-12 10:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the lawyer who drafted the will
2006-12-12 10:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily not if your parents didnt have it in writting or that sort of stuff sorry you can try checking.....ask around to some of their close friends
2006-12-12 10:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that all you can think of is the money? I bet that they are the same way,Greedy.The money isn`t going to last for ever anyway.
2006-12-12 10:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hire a lawyer, hire three lawyers
2006-12-12 10:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh get over it would your parents smack u for thinking that way
2006-12-12 10:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by jaime_0302 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
invite her out...get her drunk...and ask her
2006-12-12 10:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by jmol72001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋