I met this girl recently and she seemed really nice but as soon as we went out clubbing, she started behaving like a nutter. Going for other blokes like physically and hurling abuse like a drunken tramp.
I broke up wiv her the following day, but why do certain people i.e myself attract the wrong person
2006-12-12 01:37:07 · 14 answers · asked by Ozzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because trust me it takes a lot more than one date to discover what a person is really like!
Also when we meet new people our judgements can be overshadowed by physical attraction etc and we dont actually stand back to assess what type of person they are!
you'renot alone in attracting the wrong people trust me - Im the physical equivalent of you!!! xx
2006-12-12 01:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are creatures of habit. Sometimes we see a certain quality in a person that stands out....regardless of all the crazy that comes out eventually...and it always does. I, myself, have been known to attract the wrong kind of men, until I met my husband now. I tell him all the time I am just waiting for the crazy to come out. He doesn't seem to have it or I just haven't seen it yet. So, I am hoping that I have broken this pattern. Keep your eyes wide open, when looking at a person. You can see the great qualities but know that there is always the potential nut case there as well.
2006-12-12 01:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could ask myself the same question. and i don't think there is a straight forward answer to it. we are attracted to the people so hold on and sometime the right person will come along. and you'll know that is right. because you'll have passion, desire, and be able to be in the same room with them without wanting to end your life.
2006-12-12 05:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by bekah22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have hurried to get in touch with a girl. Try to be patient and look for a Good Girl and at the same time make yourself good too!
2006-12-12 02:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the answer feel free to share your info with me cause i always pick nutters too
2006-12-12 02:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must learn from your lessons. If you notice a pattern of behavior in future ladies you eye that has failed you in the past, maybe you should hold off.
2006-12-12 02:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by whathappenedamber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u attract the rong people,i think u are attracted to the rong people.look before u leap bro, so u dont have to be breaking up wit them sistas the very next day.
wish u the best
2006-12-12 02:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by beaume 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you act you are wrong for her. Find out what she wants and align your self accordingly. Its easy!!
May be she wanted sex and you didnt approach her and she wanted someone who can express her sexually.
Alternatively, she was teasing you and testing your love. Go for her dude!! Win her over.
2006-12-12 01:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Hermit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as i can say is, you need to change the way u look and judge the people....:) bye tc.
2006-12-12 01:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by survivor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are flawed human beings, and we make mistakes, and plenty of them during our lifetime.
2006-12-12 01:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋