We went to his parents last night and someone said if I was going to carry his last name - I'd have to stop being shy.
Then his brother was looking at a paper and saying stuff about wedding dresses.
When we got home - we started a conversation about his friend/my cousin. He said that he and his friend will be related when we get married.
Think he's dropping hints? We have no money so I don't think he is planning to do it soon?
2006-12-12 01:36:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We did not go to his parents for money we went for a party. We have dated almost 6 years, and live together.
2006-12-12 01:52:45 · update #1
So it looks like he and his whole family have no doubt you will say Yes when he finally decides to ask you? And seeing as how you're asking this question here, they are right? Hey that's cool. Then stop being shy and talk to him openly, but don't press him. You know, the way human beings are, if you start to want it too desperately, he starts wondering if that's what he wanted. Just be frank and confident.
2006-12-12 01:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by averagebear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is talking marriage, he will ask you. You say you have no money, maybe he can't afford a ring. Is that going to be an issue for you? Decide if the ring is important, many people don't have real diamond engagement rings and talk about it to someone who would mention it to him.
Congrats
By the way, you can get married fairly cheap. Gowns are only worn once by used and save 60-75%. See if family will help with the reception and all. you could be married for well under $1,000.
2006-12-12 01:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money isnt an object. You can get married freely with a justice of the peace in USA.
I would say he is dropping not too subtle hints. If you are uncomfortable about it and feel like he is going to pop the question it's your responsibility to let him know, you don't feel financially secure enough, or your worried about all the talk before he gets too serious. By not bringing it up and letting him talk freely about it your opening yourself up to being asked soon.
2006-12-12 01:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ PeeJ ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing I will tell you is, if you are under the age of 21 your chances of success in marriage is LESS than if you were 25 or older.
Now for the good stuff..............Sounds like he is feeling you out about popping the question.....All you have to do is wait and be very SURE of your answer....Be it Yes or No.........I haven't seen in your question anything about LOVE.........or commitment..........Remember MONEY is the root of all evil............that includes having none in marriage or any relationship.........whatever you decide I wish you well
2006-12-12 01:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something as serious as marriage should be discussed and not just be implied through hints. So I think that he is thinking about it, but you should have an honest discussion about it to make sure it's the best for both of you!!
2006-12-12 01:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by shirah_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur fingers crossed..and make ur intentions clear by carefully spilling ur view incase u get a hint . if u r ready then..
for eg.
1) i guess its high tym to get married..what do u think?
A: how about today? weather luks gud..do u mind if i giv a call to the priest?
if ur not ready then..
1) i guess its high tym to get married..what do u think?
A: i dont think my financial is stable..
add these to both of the abov sentences: hey i was jus kidding.
if hes giving hints, follow the path but make sure he receives it well.
hows that?
2006-12-12 01:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by HereToAnswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he's dropping hints. Only time will tell though.
2006-12-12 01:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it!! Congratulations! He's feeling you out to see what your response might be. Guys do that because they don't like rejection. If you want to marry him, be sure to respond positively to his hints.
2006-12-12 01:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes gonna pop the question better get ready
2006-12-12 01:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by tyler d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his way of telling you that one day he wants to marry you. there is no need for him to drop down on his knees and pop the question. he is telling you in his own way that he wants to get married. but please do not take it for granted... you just met his parents, altough, if you can steer away from them, maybe you'll make it to get married but if you keep going to his parents, don't worry about your financial problems cause you'll never get married.
2006-12-12 01:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋