It seems like this is almost customary now as a way to say thank you for a great date! What do you all think and have you had experiences that reinforce this?
2006-12-12 01:35:17 · 26 answers · asked by general_lee6165 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It pretty much is. I give them for thank yous.
2006-12-12 01:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's just wrong. It's indecent and humiliating to a girl. Why should she have to give a blo-job on the first date, before she even knows the man better? I hope this isn't going on in the teenage world, because when I go on dates I give only kisses for a wonderful evening. Blo-Jobs don't come until months into the relationship.
2006-12-12 09:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would think that the females involved in this type of behavior have got their signals crossed. And they are very confused as to what is appropriate and not appropriate behaviors. They must think sex will get them whatever they want in life. Surely it will not get you the type of relationship that would be meaningful and serious. I surely would not look very kindly on a man who would perform oral sex on me barley knowing me. This would be a very huge red flag, and would not been seen in my eyes as someone I would want to continue dating. I perceive kissing as a intimate part of a relationship and I would want to know the person some before sharing this aspect of me. And as for oral sex, well it would definitely would have to be a serious relationship, with commitment before I would come to the conclusion that this is ok or even be comfortable with it. And any man who would choose to act in this manner would give me the feelings that he is very needy, insecure and suffering from a very low self esteem. This is not the way to express your gratitude for a good date. At least not if you wanted more dates. God bless****
2006-12-12 09:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow I wish I had your proposed luck. No it doesn't appear to be that way in my world.
I think a way of saying you had a good date is the same old-fashioned concept. But that is clearly a personal opinion. I hate the other method, and don't get me wrong, its not because of the act, its because I really don't care for "easy" ladies that are clearly not worried about who they are.
2006-12-12 09:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by ☺ PeeJ ☺ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. your a putz
2. the answer is no.
but because the internet has no legal and moral guidelines and kids are growing up in this environment without both parents at home - our children are learning that what you suggest is ok.
Does that make it right?
Kissing is sensual and so gratifying. If you want to cheapen your experiences - go back to your tech tard chat room train your brain badly and learn more garbage.
2006-12-12 09:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
when on a date make sure you speak what the girl wants to hear. If you do that you get what you want. I have so far have at least 80% success.
2006-12-12 09:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Hermit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no. I'd like to you who you are going out with that this is "customary"?
its so not in my book
2006-12-12 09:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by you know who 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, but if that's what I want at the end of the date then I'm going to suck you off. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't depends on the guy.
2006-12-12 09:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ive never givin anyone a bj after a date but also not a slut!!
2006-12-12 09:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by dewthedude7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fingers crossed!!
2006-12-12 09:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's customary where you live... I need to move there!
2006-12-12 09:38:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋