2006-12-12 01:05:08 · 11 answers · asked by Michael N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All normal women want the same thing, a strong man who loves them. However, how they define these things are probably vastly different than how you would.
Strong - This is the type of man who is used to effecting the world rather than sitting around and letting the world do whatever it pleases to him. He remains in control of himself and the situation, calm, cool, and collected, especially when the situation is bad. You can't push his buttons, but, by the same token, he doesn't accept bad behavior from either himself or others. He doesn't have bad habits (smoking, drinking, drugs, etc.) or silly fears and phobias. He knows what he wants (or who he wants) and goes after it and doesn't care in the slightest what other people think about that, especially her. He is direct, honest, often blunt. This type of man, when he sees a girl he likes, doesn't hesitate in the slightest. He walks right up to her and immediately lets her know that he is interested in her. There is no fear or hesitation or looking around to see what others think. No following of bullshit made up rules or false etiquette. He's not afraid to interrupt her, even if he is interrupting her while talking to her boyfriend or husband. He's not ignorant of the rules of human behavior. He just knows that those rules don't apply to him.
Love by the way, is defined differently too. Love to a woman means you won't abandon her. You will stick around and take care of her and her children and care about their well being. This is ALOT different than the excitement, passion and tender feelings most people define as love. Those things are nice, but what really matters is the evidence that you show her that you are in it for the long term with her. That there is no danger of you abandoning her with a kid or three. This is biological instinct. Prior to the modern era, a woman abandoned by her man, and her children, starved to death. All women are terrified of this when in important relationships. The issue is this. If you show her evidence that you don't care about her or could leave her or that the relationship is unstable, she will try to replace you with someone who will stay, even if he is a schlub and you are a stud. Alot of guys get smacked by this issue and are like wtf....how could she leave me for that loser.
As defined above, strength, gets the girl. Love gets her to stay.
2006-12-12 01:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
. A lady wants a man to make her feel safe and to be reminded that he will be her rock through thick and thin. He needs to be condident in how he feels about her and to let her know that she's the one. It has to be true though. You would have to really think she is special for this one though...no fronts. Be her friend. Don't be afraid to talk about things with her and communicate with her. These are all turn ons. Help her with something that she would have a hard time doing herself. Make sure to tell her you couldn't have done it without her. Create something with her-like a garden. She will know that you wanted her to enjoy the flowers and that is why you made the effort. This is something that is always better with someone to help with the hard parts. Just offer to help her with something she may need help with, whether its some kind of support or anything else. Then give her some room to let it all sink in. More than likely, she will not run across too many men who actually likes to do these things just for her. If she's not serious about everything just yet, don't crowd her but just make sure she knows you would love to be there for her if she ever needs him. If not suggest something. Come up with a good idea.
2006-12-12 01:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a stereotypical concept that bodybuilders are ineffective and into themselves (in the different case they does no longer spend a lot time determining in the front of mirrors) so a lady would imagine that they received't make being concerned companions. also, when you consider that bodybuilders are many times wellbeing nuts a lady with one would continually ought to rigidity if he replaced into judging her seems, health aspect or personality for eating an occasional doughnut. I dated a bodybuilder once and he chided me about heart sickness each and each and every time I used the salt shaker. stressful. Bodybuilders are purely too intense-upkeep. women often favor to be the "enormously" one contained in the relationship...and a masculine guy is one which makes a lady sense loved and loved even if he looks weak and effeminate.
2016-11-25 22:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by wiltshire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man isn't the guy with the muscles, he's the guy with the heart. Be nice around girls. He can make himself more manly by paying attention to world around him. For exemple- if a girl drops her books in the hall, go help her pick them up. You're not a man until you're kind enough to be one. Does that make any sense?
2006-12-12 01:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hardly anything makes a man more "manly" than projecting honest self confidence (NOT arrogance) and being comfortable with who and what he is. Women can spot this a mile away and most DO respond to it positively. Of course, good manners, good looks, good clothes, nice car and lots of money help...;-)
2006-12-12 01:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
One word: Chivalry
Hold open doors, take her coat, pull out chairs, compliment her personality and looks, stick up for her, and be polite.
Any guy can try to be "manly" by building muscle and growing facial hair, but it takes a real man to treat a woman right.
2006-12-12 01:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop wearing cologne, body deoderant, hair sprays and other beauty products... those are for metro-sexuals. Second, be more of a jerk. Watch more sports and hang out more with the guys and pound booze away. Know how to use tools. Know how to fix things. Do everything yourself, mow your own lawn... etc.
Getting the picture?
2006-12-12 01:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think most women prefer a man that is sensitive to a woman's feelings and a man that will take her seriously when she has a problem, no matter if it is serious to the man or not.
2006-12-12 01:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by charolette g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Start by chewing tobacco and spitting, then take up the scratching of your crotch, after that, get in the habit of belching and blowing your nose with your fingers, you know what I mean, be macho, that is what I mean.
2006-12-12 01:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
I think either you have it, or you don't. Either enough testosterone is running through your body, or not.
2006-12-12 01:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋