So my boyfriend of a month decides to tell me that three nights ago he had cheated on me. Not just a kiss or a touch. He slept with her. He then decided to break up with me. I have had four boyfriends and three of them cheated on me. What i want to know is if I'm doing anything wrong or if all guys are just pigs.
2006-12-12 01:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so sorry this happened to you. That must be very painful.
First of all, it isn't something you did wrong. You didn't cheat--he did.
However, there are some people who tend to pick the same type of guy over and over due to self esteem issues and childhood issues. Could this be the case with you? Are you hurting from the past, and aren't dealing with the pain?
Perhaps you don't value yourself enough. Maybe it's time to take some time out for YOU. Take some time to heal...learn to put yourself first.
You sound like a very caring person. I wish you all the best, and hope that one day you will find the guy who is truly deserving of your affection.
Blessings,
JustanAngel
2006-12-12 01:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by justanangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might ask why they cheated? If the answer was that they were not getting something they needed from you, you might want to change some things. Mostly though, most guys are pigs to a greater or lesser degree - especially young men.
2006-12-12 01:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on! We're all animals at the end of the day. Men and women cheat sometimes. least he didn't lie to you.
Remember the only real way to get inside a guys mind is to drill a hole with some form of power drill or perhaps precision sander. Good luck!
2006-12-12 01:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all are pigs. Have you ever heard the saying about kissing a lot of frogs before you meet the prince?
2006-12-12 01:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're not all creeps, but women have a habit of going after the guys who treat them the worst. You can't have your cake and eat it, as they say.
2006-12-12 01:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT your fault that THEY cheated.
They are just pigs.
**** em'.
2006-12-12 01:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Markie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy are just pigs!!!
2006-12-12 01:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by LL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋