Everyone tells me how pretty i am and how good of a personality i have and how i am so caring then why can't i get the kind of man that i am looking for?? I have diffrent boys asking me out all the time but there just not my type. Either they only want one thing or they are to childish. I want someone that is gonna be caring like i am and not cheat on me and someone that dont want just one thing. What do i do?? I mean i know it aint bout the looks but am i really so ugly that no decent guy will even look at me or are they just to busy with the gurls who are going to break there heart??
2006-12-12 00:55:32 · 18 answers · asked by country chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there may be one factor at play here, & that is that you are so pretty that all of the good guys are intimidated by your good looks, & are afraid to ask you out.
Many of the losers that you have been dating are probably used to being rejected once in awhile, so they will ask you out even if they think that it's likely they will be rejected.
There is one thing that you may be doing wrong, & that is you may be targeting the wrong market.
You may be very pretty, but you may be wearing clothes,& hair that sends out a signal about yourself that is contrary to your personality.
Or, you may be meeting guys in a place where only losers hang out, instead of going to places that will more likely be a hangout for the kind of guys you find more acceptable.
Keep trying, but broaden your horizons a little.
2006-12-12 01:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look from reading your posts it seems like you are associating yourself and going to the wrong places. Looks sounds like you have high standards and that is great. It is good that you are not lowering your standards with guys who do not meet your expectations. Go to places where the type of guys that you want to meet go. Like in the business district where all the employees work who have good office jobs, they hang out after work at certain bars and resturants. Find a couple of these nice places and go there. Be cool calm and collective and you will find a guy who will meet your standards.
2006-12-12 01:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your really pretty sometimes this is intimidating to guys. They fear rejection so they don't ask you out. Maybe if you started to talk to some of the guys you think you'll be interested in you might just find the guy your looking for. There's nothing wrong with a girl making the first move. good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-12 01:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty is a relative term and not an absolute. All people of the world are not same and each country has its own look for their citizen. So one should be Pretty from inside, with a broad mind, helping attitude and serve the nation or the humanity.
2006-12-12 01:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find someone...he's out there. Hang in there and don't give into those guys who just want one thing, because if you do, then the guy you're really looking for won't want you. But you already know that. Just keep the guys as friends, no strings attached, no sex either. One day, you'll know when the right one comes along, but please wait until you're atleast twenty. Wish you luck threre!
2006-12-12 00:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a thought: what kind of image are you portraying to the guys out there? For example, if you act immature you might get younger, more immature guys after you, if you dress slutty you are more likely to have guys hanging around you that only want one thing.
if you want a sensitive, caring guy that will treat you like an angel then broadcast how sensitive and caring YOU are and you will attract guys that are looking for the same thing!
It's just a thought.....i found my man and he is wonderful!!!!
2006-12-12 01:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by mstngsally26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there kiddo, Mr right is very close and will be popping in on you shortly. Fifty years ago it would have been me but alas it will have to be someone else. Take care and don't rush into anything. When Mr Right comes along you'll know it. Even then don't rush, be cool and let it happen.
2006-12-12 01:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think that you are pretty, it does not matter what others think, stop looking for guys, start concentrating on you. Guys watch girls all of the time, there is the right one watching you right now, you just have to be secure in yourself and stop acting desperate
2006-12-12 00:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the look of your previous questions it seems that maybe your standard is a bit high. Guys are all Arseholes. If they say they aren't then there lying. It just depends on the amount that they show. You just have to keep trying and eventually you'll find the right one.
2006-12-12 01:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Clyde 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well don't rely on ur looks to get a guy. Just relax and you will find that one for you when you least expect. Maybe they are just intimidated by your beauty and are just too shy to approach. Maybe you should try pursuing them.
2006-12-12 00:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by resajohn79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋