that her 2 sons sexually abused me and I just can't shake the feeling off now. My mother knows what happened but this woman doesn't. I feel all weird.
2006-12-12 00:54:54 · 7 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I knew exactly what you were going to say just by reading the first part. You need to tell their mom about it and you need to report it because they broke the law not to mention what they did and took from you. What does your mom have to say about it? Did you tell her about it as soon as it happened? You need to inform the lady that your going to inform the authority's. What if they are thinking to themselves "Hey, I got away with it and I can do it again and get away with it." Who knows how many times they have done it or not but you need to report it no matter how long ago it was. Good luck to you and please keep us informed . I will say a prayer for you.
2006-12-12 01:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by ws_422 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to get over the feelings from this or do you want to do something about it? The answer to this will determine what you do.
I am assuming from your question that the sons are adults now and the friend did NOT have her sons with her. Is this correct?
If you want to do something about this I believe you have two choices. You can either confront the sons if you know where they are or you can report them to the authorities.
If you just want to get past this and go on with your life, then maybe you can see a mental health professional and talk this through. In most if not all states, the therapist will have to report this if you give the names. So be careful if you have decided not to go the legal route.
Some of your answers have suggested that you tell the mother of these molesters. I think that depends on her age. You don't say how old you are, but if this this mother is an elderly women with older adult sons, then I would let the poor lady live in peace. If everyone is younger and she still has influence or control over these two molesters, then she should know about it.
Good luck and God bless you.
2006-12-12 12:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother must of felt weird. You probably never will shake off the feeling for her or her sons. Avoid the situations of meeting her and explain to your mother that you intend on following through with not being in the same location with her friend. My heart goes out to you for a number of reasons. Join a support group for the knowledge that you are going to cope with your feelings and you are not alone....
2006-12-12 09:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had obviously blocked out a bad memory and upon seeing her it brought it all back to you. If you are having a hard time dealing with it now then you should probably seek professional counceling in order to deal with the feelings that you are having so that you can move on with your life. Sexual abuse is very traumatic and unless you express yourself and deal with it head on it will haunt you forever. If you were to see this woman again I would recommend that you tell he what happend. If you do not then you will never truly heal and I think she ought to know what her children have done...hopefully they are not still sexually abusive in their current lifestyles...if they are then she may be able to intervene and help someone else. Good luck to you.
2006-12-12 09:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black - If you have repressed memories that just came back to you, you need to see a therapist immediately. It is possible that you are feeling the symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The best help is to address it right away with someone who can help you work through the memories.
GBYou
2006-12-12 09:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even imagine that your mom would let them in your house...you MOM needs to confront this thing and tell her off and threaten to put them in jail...this is sickening to me...You can forgive and forget if you want to, but I can't believe your mom...tell her that I think that she should do something about this, at least tell the broad not to come into your house with her two monsters any more..sorry, very very upset over this.
2006-12-12 09:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you gotta seek mental health bro. It will help you out trust me on that.
2006-12-12 08:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by silver_monkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋