Is it accepatble for a 19 year old to date a 30 year old?
2006-12-12 00:54:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hunni,
Let me tell you something i'm 19 and just ended a relationship with a 32 year old. (age wasnt the problem his mother was) but if he makes you happy dont care what anyone else thinks if i had been bothered about what other people said i would have never of learned the happiness that this bloke gave me you gotta ask yourself:
1) does it feel like theres an age gap when your together?
2) does his age really bother you that much?
3) does he not make you happy?
if the answer no to them all then what you waiting for!!! People will only judge you if you start judging yourself if you show people you have no problem with it they will respect you for your wishes, i used to get taunted a bit at first but when people saw how happy we were they just went along with it.
So what you waiting for hunni go bag yourself that man!!!!
Chel x x x
2006-12-12 01:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chel1525 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's legal but people change a LOT between 20 & 30 so any man who has a lot in common with a 19 year old girl, is pretty stunted in the maturity dep. It's nothing against the 19 yo girl but when she's 30 she will understand.
2006-12-12 00:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel its right then date him, just remember if the relationship goes well and matrimony is an issue, remember you really have to love this person because he is 11 years older than you are- when you are 45 he will be 56 and things will not be the same, with the age comes lots of different body changes,moods and feelings.
Luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-12 01:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a choice for you to make.
Most people that I know seem to think that age difference matters less as you get older. If you were 10 years older, in other words, it would hardly matter at all. Just make sure you and he are together for the same reasons -- you don't want to be a status symbol for him, if he's going through an early mid-life crisis!
2006-12-12 00:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Hilary F. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really it ain't that right but these days it is now. I mean you have to think about the fact that he is going to get older and when he is all wrinkly and that then would you love the guy still?
I reckon that uo to 5 years younger is my idea but things have changed so much these days and it would be all right if you did love him. If he was just a go between then that is cool but aslong as he knew it
2006-12-12 01:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of women who like older men and there's not a thing wrong with this. Some women are more mature then others and feel more comfortable with a older man. Your of age and should be old enough to make that decision on your own. good luck to you. ;o)
2006-12-12 01:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. I would date a 30 year old
2006-12-12 00:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not is acceptable all depends on the maturity of the people involved. I have dated guys much older than me in the past but most of the time our differences were too great.
2006-12-12 00:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by resajohn79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is acceptable. It is fine. If you go back to biblical times it was always common for the younger lady to get with an older man. Women for most like older men because they are wiser and they provide lots of security.
2006-12-12 00:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are mature, or him lol, i am 33 and i dont know if i could date a 19 year old though, maybe 21 at the youngest
2006-12-12 00:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋