Theres this guy that i work with that i am very attracted to. Sometimes we get our break together and he talks to me about personal things like his family and his school. How can i tell if he likes me back or how can i get him to like me??
2006-12-12 00:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by country chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it's easy 2 see that he has feelings 4 u because he is telling u about his family and how school is going.
Don't worry u will get plenty of signs showing that he likes you.
(((( GOOD LUCK ))))
2006-12-12 00:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already talking to you about relatively personal things then the chances are that he already does like you to a certain extent.
It should develop well enough if you take things one step at a time. If you have known him for long enough then you could do the unpredicatable thing of inviting him out for a drink or a meal some time (Ok so its typically the guys who do so, but it could be that this guy is shy).
Also keep in mind how far you would like to go with the friendship. Adapt your actions to suit your intentions. Take it slow either way. Good luck.
2006-12-12 00:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by shadow_cup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are the same as the ladies. They wonder if you like them also. If this guy was not interested in you he would not talk to you about personal things. This is a pretty sure sign that he would like to get to know you better. Guys like the ladies give off non verbals like he goes out of his way to speak to you, always says good morning and always shares pleasantries with you. The next time you have a break casually observe his eyes. You can tell by his eyes if they have that small glare in them. Sure they will. Like they say "the eyes are the window" to the soul. Eyes never lie.
2006-12-12 00:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he takes the time out to talk to you he already likes you as a person, as far as like like that will come with time.
2006-12-12 00:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can get him to like you just by being your self don't be someone that you aren't. You want someone to like for who you are just keep talking to him and then you'll know. If he really likes you then he'll ask you out, believe me. If he just wants to be your friend then you'll find someone out there that would be really attracted to you, and that you have lots of things in common.
2006-12-12 00:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by squeeks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, check up on the dating policies at your workplace. Some places REALLY frown upon co-workers dating.
Then, if it's still a possibility, just go ahead and ask him!
2006-12-12 00:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. we write notes back and forth, and he gave me one of those huge jimmy johns chocolate chip cookies but he claims he doesn't want to get romantically involved with anyone. i think he likes me but he's fighting it inside. i would just keep talking to this guy and see where it goes. just don't start getting all mushy with him yet, incase he's not sure about his feelings.
2006-12-12 00:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by sag.grrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are. if you are young 12-18 if he likes you then he'll want to spend time with you and want to get to know you while you get to know him. if he doesn't like you he wouldn't spend time with you. don't do the typical girl thing and make him tell you that he likes you, it'l; just ruin the moment. just take some blind faith and know that time equalls interest.
2006-12-12 00:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Michael N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at him from across the room and Bat your eyes and smile. If he smiles back, he likes you. Plain and simple.
2006-12-12 00:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋