i like this guy but my friends says hes ugly n everything but at da same time they say we look alike n that we would make a good couple plus i have them all on Hush hush from telling dued i like him but they say they got something on me 2 n n i am afraid they might just tell him thats a scary event wat do i do
2006-12-12 00:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by lostgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like a guy it should not matter what anyone thinks as long as he is not a nasty piece of work your friends cant say anything especially that he is ugly just cause you might not have the smae taste as your friends dont worry about it. as for them blackmailling you about your feelings they do not sound like very good friends to me. I would stick 2 fingers up to them and take the bull by the horns and go and ask this fella out and do what you want to do. you only live once and life is too short to look back and say what if. go girl. good luck. x
2006-12-12 00:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst that can happen? Then tell him, and he says that he doesn't like you. It may seem pretty traumatic right now, but it wouldn't be the end of the world. Why not beat them to the punch line and tell him yourself?
Oh, and by the way, looks really aren't that important. Some of the ugliest guys in middle school grow up to be the best-looking adults.
2006-12-12 08:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now we got that out of the way; date who you like and never mind what they think.
Now that they are hushed in telling him you like him; you tell him and take it from there.
Now let us say it works out and your still threatened by what your friends may or may not do (if they do they are not your friends)
My experience is to take the bull by the horns. My sister was threatening to tell my husband about a very personal event in my life; I beat her to the punch and told him myself. What I am saying it is better it comes from you.
2006-12-12 08:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, our friends are supposed to be a fixture in our lives, but they are also supossed to be our support. Unless this guy is a stalker or something, really they should let you decided on your man. Its not like they have to date him. Bribing, whats that? Don't be a scardicat. I think think that you should just make your move. Throw your friends off a little. Let them know you are your own individual and they can't hold you down.
2006-12-12 08:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but dont go for/not go for someone simple cause your friends say yes/no!!
Follow your heart but if its too early to follow your heart follow ONLY YOUR gut instincts!!
Best of luck huni
2006-12-12 08:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what your friends think!
If you like him, go for it!
2006-12-12 08:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever you like to eat.......
2006-12-12 08:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by patmccrotch79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋