What do women find attractive in a man (and be specific) that makes him sexy and desireable?

Answer 1

He would need:

Great self-esteem

Knows what he wants out of life

Knows who he is in every way inside/outside

He should have some interests - not just hanging around

He needs dreams but works towards them (doesn't just sit talking about them)

Positive attitude

Things like this is what I strive for and so this is what I find attractive in others.

A man who has accepted himself in every way and is comfortable with who he is and whom isn't focussed on being accepted by society is very sexy.

Answer 2

At first glance, it's always the face. The eyes are a big deal for women. We can see pretty much what is going on behind them. What attracts me the most to a man is his sense of humor. This is very important because you want someone to laugh with and not take it all too seriously. The body isnt' that big of a deal to me anymore, but when I was younger I had to have a tight body. Of course, this is not recommended due to how muscle sucks up their brains. Thank you.

Answer 3

I don't think it's a very physical thing, unless the girl you're trying to attract is completely superficial, which you probably don't want anyway. To many girls, it's all about the way he treats them, not the way he looks. It makes a girl feel very sexy to have a guy give her exclusive attention. Intense eye contact, long conversations, during which you allow nothing to distract you from her, etc.
Also, physical contact. As long as you're not too intimate or pushy, the girl will love your hand on her back, on her knee, or around her shoulders (which makes a girl feel very protected).
I knew my boyfriend was amazing when he did these things, and we're still together after so long! :)

Answer 4

Slacks and a button down shirt are effective. So is a extra healthy. Even a extra healthy with out the tie, yet with a effective button down shirt with the suitable button undone is sharp. Tight denims maaaay be ok as long as they do no longer harm "the lads". No golfing shirts. Hmmm...spouse beaters could be ok in case you have the ideal suited hands and chest to flow with it. footwear could be clean and darker than (or same shade as) the pants. till they are footwear. rings would not remember. even with the undeniable fact that some men can somewhat pull off a effective pinky ring.

Answer 5

Personality, confidence, humour, women love a man with a great sense of humour.

Ever heard of this "laughed right into bed"

Good Luck

Answer 6

Body, eyes, teeth, hair, Personality is the most important. I also love a man in uniform but thats just me. I also love the smile but eyes and the body turn me on the most.

Answer 7

It depends on the woman. I personally like tall, lanky dark haired guys with facial hair and big hands-but thats physical stuff that in time will fade so emotionally I like someone who is easy to get along with,who will fight till the death to defend what he loves and believes in and is an outdoorsman -but thats just me.

Answer 8

Brains and more brains. Good principals and morals, respects women and his parents. A decent job, a goal in life. Whooo hoooo for me! (hard to find, by the way)

Answer 9

posture, carriage, looks and purpose.
Carriage meaning does he hold his head high even if his posture is slightly bad.
A man who walks in a room with purpose; a man who walks in with his head bowed is saying that he's ashamed of himself. He has to show that he's the king of his kingdoml some have the title, yet they are not worthy of it.

Answer 10

A man that listens to what a woman has to say and "acts" like it's important is irresistable.