i mean sex is all good but i cant expect to get into relationship with someone if there just going to have sex like 3 dates in, arent there any honest women out there that will hold out for a while, not a long while like a year but at least keep me goin for a month or so
2006-12-12 00:27:42 · 24 answers · asked by remigio_castaldini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Takes 2 to tango....why dont the guys keep it in there pants...you can always say no..
2006-12-12 00:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by FILLME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i suppose people in general could be described as more easy than they used to be, but theres still lots of girls out there that would want to wait a month or so. Personally I wouldn't sleep with anyone after 3 dates but thats just me.If you don't want to have sex so early on then tel her that, chances are she's just worried that you'll lose interest if she doesnt sleep with you. Not true but some guys are like that and the give the rest of you a bad name.
2006-12-12 00:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard a guy complain about getting sex right away. I think a lot of women think that men expect it and if they don't put out in the beginning then the guy will just find someone who will. If a woman has a past of being used for sex it is likely she doesn't have much confidence in herself and probably thinks that sex is all she has to offer. It's just like women who are in abusive relationships...they tend to follow a pattern for a bit until their confidence builds up. But hey that's just my opinion!
2006-12-12 00:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are gurls out there that can wait. I guess some gurls get in with the wrong boys who use them and tell them lies. But yeas gurls can wait to. I reakon some gurls think thats what the man wants which in most cases it usually is. Men arent innoscent. But its nice to see someome who isnt all about sex. It would be easier if there were more men like you.
2006-12-12 00:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by country chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a holding out makes he relationship stronger i held out with my partner for a few months i wanted to know him first and seven years on and we are still strong. girls are worse then men i think, they just check them selves from men to men and dont give it another thought, i personally think it is wrong the way i look at things is if i was a man i would not want to take home a girl to meet my parents knowing that she sleeps with anything she comes across. girls need to be aware that holding back can be sexy.
2006-12-12 00:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's more to it than all that has been said. Unfortunately, many girls who are easy are easy because they are looking for attention. As the saying goes, "looking for love in all the wrong places". It could be for a variety of reasons, usually because they have endured some kind of childhood abuse, whether it be sexual, severe emotional, or any of the like. particularly if girls have been sexually abused, they are much more prone to be promiscuous. Let those girls know that they don't have to sleep with you in order for you to like them or even to have a relationship with you. Good luck!! :)
2006-12-12 00:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are. Where are you finding the ones your picking up? I sure don't hang there....but anyway, try a different setting or get involved in some class or activity...
Sometimes women are the new "men" and sometimes they don't know any better with other hidden situations of male figures in their lives. Just a guess...
2006-12-12 00:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by pinkchicchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's been a while, and we need sex just like men do. However, I do wonder how old you are, what age of girls are you talking about? Seems like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't these days. Why don't you say no if you really feel this way???
2006-12-12 00:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are keep seeking and you shall find.
You also have to keep your zipper zipped and none of that foreplay testing Okie dokie? Some not all mind you equate that with you really and truly want them and that is not what you mean, so be on the up and up at all times.
2006-12-12 00:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like men women love sex sometime they cant help them selves and just want sex but the guys don't make it easy on us you guys pressure to have sex and it takes 2 people to do it so why do you only say girls are easy guys are easy to why cant you guys hold out to that's so typical of guys to blame everything on women if you think that we are easy why cant men just wait to you know
2006-12-12 00:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are also human beings who have biological needs, just like guys. Some girls are indeed more needy than guys realize, and probably you've met some of them. If they are not your type, you can be honest with them about your needs and feelings and then find the right type of girl for you. I hope this answers your question and good luck.
2006-12-12 00:32:12 · answer #11 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋