My bf had been very jealous n he used to confess tht he cant tolerate my talking to any guy even on phone.In june he saw me doing salsa with a guy whom he considered very handsom. So he abused me by text mesgs.Then he startd thinkin tht im a cheap girl. he kept silent for few weeks then sent me anger filled mesgs n tht im a pros...ute,n he want to slap me coz his friens told him i was dating with sme guy whereas i was with my parents. But he never believed me. He never trusted me but trusted his friens n they keep proving him im bad i dont know why. His jealous ruined my relation with him. He was the only guy in my life but he doesnt believe me n asked me never to mesg. Now he sent me a mesg on 2dec tht where was i going with my bf whereas i was alone in my car. Then he sent me a forward mesg which said even though he is silent, it doesnt mean he is dead, he remembers , misses n cares for me. but since 2nd dec, he hasnt sent any mesg. WILL HE STILL CONTCT ME AGAIN OR BE SILENT NOW???
2006-12-12 00:17:07 · 15 answers · asked by sakeena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he will. just pray to god
2006-12-12 00:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you would even want to be in a relationship with this guy. He is mentally abusing you and possibly more. Chances are he will contact you again. If you decide to contine on with this relationship, he needs some help. It is not wrong to look at another man, he needs to understand that. Sit down and have a serious heart to heart conversation, if he can't do that than he isn't woth the time. My opinion is that he was either cheated on in the past or he saw his father treat his mother the same way.
If it was me, I would can the guy. If he continued to bother me I would contact the police and get a Protection From Abuse.
Best of Luck
2006-12-12 00:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is courting another girl. You may want to move on, it will likely be over soon any way. If 1 partner is jealous of the other it usually won't last long.
2006-12-12 00:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope for silent. You don't need that kind of guy in your life - ever! Sounds like he likes to be in control. Don't let him. If he bothers you and you're afraid, go to your parents and possibly the police.
2006-12-12 00:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by plumbersangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're really lucky!! This guy sounds like a nut case, somebody you don't want in your life. You don't want anybody who is as controlling and jealous as he is. Just hope he doesn't want to contact you again. If he does, tell him you don't want to see and/or hear from him again.
2006-12-12 00:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by bon b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest ive been where u are exactly this is the female here but to be honest more than likely hes just playing games with your heart and u just basically need to move on and find someone that will treat you rite there out there just give it time
2006-12-12 00:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you reply his messages? Most likely he will send you another one cos he cant let 'it' go.If possible, talk to his friends and tell them to mind their own business cos its between you and your bf, plus, you arent cheating on him or fooling him. Well, he said he still misses you and cares for you, prolly he is possessive when dealing with love. The problem lies in his friends.
2006-12-12 00:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen&Broken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he won't ...
I don't think you feel happy with this guy ,he sounds ab normal and he seems to have very low self esteem ..move on girl ,he's not worthy your love ,he's not a man to be able to rely on ...
2006-12-12 00:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. Create a sparkling folder on your telephone for his textual content messages and save them there. 2. call the law enforcement officials and press prices adversarial to him for harassment. it truly isn't any longer abuse, it truly is harassment. there's a distinction, obscure yet nevertheless a distinction. good luck, i wish he leaves you on my own.
2016-11-25 22:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you contact him? If you do it once he would feel you care for him.such things do happen in relationships.
2006-12-12 00:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by him h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might still try to contact you, he probably thinks your still his girl and it will take a while before he relizes it is over
2006-12-12 00:19:41 · answer #11 · answered by remigio_castaldini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋