What is the meaning behind a man acting seemingly very keen during phone calls, suggesting future dates etc, but who goes quiet for weeks on end. He is not married, btw. We spoke a month ago before i moved out of town for a month, with work. During this call he was very chatty, instigating talks about taking time off work to visit me. However he never called and after 2 weeks silence i called him. He was apologetic and upset by my assumption that he didn't want to see me again, explaining his silence as work related, i.e. he was frustrated by failed attempts to try and get time off to visit me. He said he was too embarrassed to call until something was sorted out. He was insistent that we stay in contact and meet up on my return, again seemingly keen and he suggested various dates. That was 2 weeks ago and no word since. He knew I would be home last week, so what does this inconsistent behaviour mean? Feel I should hold out and wait for him to make effort to contact me this time? Agree
2006-12-12 00:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confused signals indeed! It could be cos he is unsure what you feel about him...or maybe he is like someone I know- fickle and swept up by what is happening in the moment but as soon as it is out of sight looking for something new to excite him.
Personally, I cant be bothered with people who cant maintain their interest---love (and Im not saying it is love) should be constant, it should not dissipate with the wind. Do you really want to get involved with someone like this, even if he is well intentioned?
2006-12-12 00:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be afraid of what people will think of him for liking a girl so much younger than he is - like maybe they'll think that he must be immature. At your guys age, 3 years can be a big difference.
2016-03-29 04:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Weirdo why are you wasting your time on someone like him I'm sorry but us normal guys like to give our attention to the women we like unless he's gay and then maybe that's why
but yeah he seems weired get rid of him...
you don't deserve this he's just playing like a child uhhh stupid men...
go for someone better who reciprocates your attention...
2006-12-12 00:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by rm4real 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suspect he may be married and you are being used to spice up his otherwise boring life try to talk to him one more time tell him what i said and see how he reacts you dont need those kind of problems never the less he doesnt seem to be as into you as you are to him you can do better !
2006-12-12 00:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by MR. EARL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are very confused things. They are very "here and now" people. What matters to a man at one time might not matter the next day. They are selfish and dont care to offend.
2006-12-12 00:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by stars 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry to say it but it sounds like he isnt that into you, i would be calling on the first day you got back into town, or leaving a message on your ansa phone to explain myself....
onwards and upwards dear girl....
2006-12-12 00:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,wait for Him to call.Meantime feel free to date other guys.
2006-12-12 00:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that into you...If he wanted to be with you he would have been and the phone calls, the reasons he gives are excuses...
2006-12-12 00:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm confused
2006-12-12 00:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would question how serious he is about you
2006-12-12 00:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by Brett S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋