is it difficult to have a lifetime relationship with a single guy 12 years younger than a woman with 2 kids?

Answer 1

Your question is full of uncertainty and insecurity. What would stop you from having that kind of relationship? Remember what kids say nowadays " Age is just a number!".

Now to make it succeed is up to you-both of you! If you ar the oman and older then you must have a lot of understanding when it comes to his lifestyle. You did not exactly state your ages so I would just assume that you are in your forty's and he is twenty's.
He will be the type that would go out a lot and you are the homebody. Learn to adjust and at the same time swing him to do what you like. It will take some persuasion but love conquers all,Right?

Remember that gap will become closer as you both age. You will stop maturing after your forty and he will play catch-up. If you marry a Peter Pan then you are in trouble.

Again if you'e older then act like it and stop treating him like you are his mom.

GO FOR IT! Older women are hotter in bed than the young ones.LOL

Answer 2

You know, sometimes you read in stories about how love hold no boundaries. Not age, not religion, not social background, but no matter what, in real life people who do that get scorned at. So to answer your question, yes, it is going to be difficult, people will talk, but the thing is where do you go from there. Do you give in to people's opinion or do you hold true to what you have built with the person. I think if the relationship is strong and the love is genuinely genuine in the first place, then the lifetime relationship will definitely last

Answer 3

It may be difficult, but it can probably be done. When I had a hiatus from my current girlfriend, soon to be fiancee, I dated a woman who was (much) more than 12 years my senior. The sex was great, and we really emotionally hit it off. However, we both knew it wouldn't last, and after a few months I had to break up with her to keep any hope of returning to the love of my life.

We had a lot in common, and there were only a few small differences the age gap caused. I think, if it was not for the social stigma, it could have been a long-term relationship.

Good luck, and your boyfriend should consider himself VERY lucky!

Answer 4

I know nothing about you or your relationship but having worked with young children for a number of years I will offer a word of advice.
Pedophiles often prey on married women with children.
A large number of child sexual abuse cases have ocurred when an older lady with children becomes involved with a younger man.
I hope this does not in anyway apply to your situation and I wish you a long happy relationship!

Answer 5

Yes, but then all relationships may have difficulties.
The age isn't that important, but the kids are, I don't know how the mother is with the kids, but it may prove problematic.
The best thing for them to do, is keep talking and discuss things, especially the influence the man is going to have on the kids, for instance, is he going to be allowed to act as a father figure?
Relationships are largely trial and error, one word.... COMMUNICATION

Answer 6

anything can work but the odds are stacked up against you, infactuation can be fleeting, especially for a younger person who thinks they know what they want but still havnt lived life

Answer 7

No ....it shouldnt be difficult if he loves you!! He knew you had kids, & that you were older than him when he met you, so why should it be difficult?

Answer 8

no but the fizical attraction between the yes

Answer 9

Yes, he probably just wants sex from a MILF.

Answer 10

why would it be difficult?